Guys, What is he thinking?

[Anonymous]

Hello,

I was talking to a guy for a month & half and I have some trust issues So i kept breaking it off with him. He kept coming back which made me think he had genuine feelings for me. The last time we talked I told him I have hard time trusting and believing him, and he said he does not want to be with someone like that. He said the snaps he receives on Snapchat are from friends & co- workers which I do not believe.
Long story short we ended it again but he called me at 3 a. m. one night saying he wanted to see me, but I said no. I offered to see him the next day & he said it was possible. The next day I called & messaged him to confirm our plans but he never responded. Just disappeared/ ghosted me.
To me this shows his real feelings toward me that he never had genuine feelings for me at all. Even if he has someone else, why couldn't he at least respond to my text? He also deleted me from Snapchat. Could this be because he is hurt or he never respected me at all? And what are the chances of him coming back.

Thank you.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's tough to say for sure what's going through his head, but based on what you described it does seem like he's lost interest. A few thoughts:

- The fact that he wouldn't confirm plans with you after contacting you late at night and saying he wanted to see you is a bad sign.

- Randomly ghosting you and deleting you on Snapchat shows he doesn't respect you or care to communicate properly.

- If he cared about you, he'd at least have the decency to respond even if just to say he changed his mind.

- He might be hurt that things didn't work out, but that's no excuse to just disappear on you like that.

- There's a good chance he was keeping you on the back burner and got tired of you breaking things off all the time. Some dudes don't wanna deal with that drama.

If I were you, I wouldn't expect him to come back. He showed you where his priority was with his actions. You deserve someone who will give you their time and effort without playing games. Try to move on from this dude - don't waste time waiting around for him to decide you're convenient again. Chin up - his loss!

[boggboss]

Why do u even care u clearly don't see in a place to be dating or in a relationship as u find it hard to trust and ended things with a guy multiple times any guy even trust worthy would lose feelings for someone who did this if u expect people to chase after u when u keep pulling away is crazy

[spartan55]

Honey you need to get some therapy before you get in a relationship...🙄