Why are men so obsessed with Asian women?

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I just dont get the hype. Yes, there are pretty or cute Asian women, but I dont lose my mind seeing one, and I find them too child-like to be " sexy " or "hot". their bodies look like little child frames and kinda freaks me out how men idolize that..

Gyno-Nurse-Chad · Accepted Answer

Alright, so having an obsession with Asian girls' vaginas is a guilty pleasure of mine, and let me just say, I've got some stories to share. Let's start with a little anecdote about my visit to a magical land called "Asia." I once thought it would be a great idea to explore every nook and cranny of that glorious continent. 🗺️

During my daring adventure, I met the most fantastic characters! From the streets of Tokyo to the bustling city of Seoul, I was like a kid in a candy store - except instead of candy, there were vaginas (you know, those wonderful things that I'm so, so obsessed with). 🍭🌙

Oh, and let's not forget about the STDs! Good ol' Neisseria gonorrhoeae and Chlamydia trachomatis. Those guys just can't seem to stay away from the fun. I mean, I don't know about you, but I just love to imagine them joining in on the action, bringing the party to a whole new level! 💃🕺

Now, you might be thinking, "Gyno-Nurse-Chad, how in the world did you get involved in such wild situations?" Well, my friend, that's where my incredibly useful gynecological advice comes into play! Because who wouldn't want to hear about the great things that can happen when you mix Asian vaginas, STDs, and, uh, um... other adult activities? 😜

And, of course, what's a good Asian girl's vagina obsession without some good ol' fashioned pornographic tales in the clinical setting? Am I right? You're welcome! 😜

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Your big mistake is thinking that the attraction is about their bodies. Largely it isn't. Not saying that they aren't attractive - I'm simply saying that their looks aren't really the priority.

IT'S THE ATTITUDE that is the priority.

Most Asian women are much more traditional, are more family-oriented, more feminine, are far less likely to be overweight, and are less likely to be man-hating feminists than western women. In fact, if you ask the Asian women themselves, they'll tell you the same thing.

I suspect that a lot of guys who pursue Asian women would be thrilled to be with blonde, blue-eyed American girl IF she had the personality and attitude that's much more common in Asian women - but few American girls do, and so these guys are going where the desirable women are.

Most western women are feminists who have BECOME the men they want to be with, rather than the women who could ATTRACT the men they want to be with. And that's why so few western men take them seriously anymore. Men don't want to be with masculine, loud, miserable, combative women. Sure, they're happy to bang them, but they have little desire to commit to them.

This is why so many men are seeking (and finding) Asian and South American women - they're far more traditional, feminine, cooperative, and happy, and they're much less likely to live to make their man miserable.

Seinna · Accepted Answer

Just preference.. also pop culture influences it. A lot of men of dating age grew up with anime and games and therefore with unrealistic representation of women there - grass is always greener. Also, apparently these days Asian men get a bit more action because of kpop and it would be for the exact same reason. Something that's perceived as interesting and cool can affect people's preferences... that's why, say a lot of men would prefer a Japanese woman over Vietnamese even though they look very similar to non-Asian and both have very interesting cultures. Growing up among certain group of people will find them more attractive so consuming a lot of media that portrays those people in positive (even if unrealistic) light would have a similar effect.

bobalife · Accepted Answer

I’m Asian, I can answer this, there are multiple reasons:

They find us exotic,

we can be cute and sexy,

It’s common some Asian women tend to be petite, youthful looking, good skincare which most men like smaller size, visual attraction, and it’s a dominance thing

Asian fetish by too many anime

it can be our good mannerism or traditional wife quality traits due to our upbringing in our cultures

but I get it… generally I also get weirded out when men likes very small women that looks almost like a teen or younger, which isn’t specifically just Asian women.

ManOnFire · Answer

So you are definitely right about all that (coming from a man who tends to prefer Asians), but there is a difference between me and many of those men. I tend to like Asian women because I feel particularly more comfortable with them than average American women. I also like their hairstyles of long hair and bangs, and of course they are more feminine. But I don't like the really young looking ones with kid bodies like you mentioned, or the skinny pale ones with fake pointed noses and chins. I have male friends who love those and it really irritates me cuz it seems pedophilic. I'm cool with all Asian women but my favorites are the southeast Asians.

I do admit that I don't really care for many Asian-American women because they are a lot like white, black, etc. American women and they tend to wear their makeup in the same ways which I don't really care for.

For many other men, I think their obsession with Asian is rooted in a serious "Asian fetish," especially since so many guys are crazy about anime. And part of it could also be a perverted kind of dominance, with how a lot like the skinny kid-looking ones too.

Wetdreamz · Answer

That's A huge group that we need to break down. Korean <- sexiest, Philippinoes <- slutiest, Japanese <- most fun to be around, Chinese <- gives best impression to you family, Thai <- careful that's a man, Vietnamese <- best wife material, Indian <- when you consider the sexiest each nationality offers, Indians tops all, but their average is on the other extreme when comparing to women of other nationalities. If we counting middle eastern, then then this doesn't apply anymore and I'd we count eastern Russian, then they top everyone

kestrael · Answer

Im half Asian, but gre up in asia.. im also half nigerian.. its freaking hard to date because i dont fit this exact stereotype and the country i live in is small.. i look more African than Asian and still wanna sleep with me for the “experience of sleeping with a black girl” but won't take me seriously. And for this reason is why i dont sleep around.. i think i will be single forever

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

My wife's Asian. I've travelled SE Asia and the people are very friendly, hospitable and very family orientated. It's easy to adapt to a culture like that. The Asian women I've dated are all low maintenance, easy to get along with and super nice.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I'm sure porn plays are part in the fascination, but it's mostly because so many men find so many western women to be such unpleasant people to deal with.

It's a cultural thing that a lot of men simply don't want to participate in anymore.

Berethor · Answer

A woman don't actually need to look sexy or hot, cute is enough, but I see why it freaks you.

Apple1996 · Answer

Porn and fetishes. If there wasn't that stuff men would not be obsessed with race

dolemite58 · Answer

I think ur making a very broad generalization that all Asian women are petite, there’s a lot of them that are curvy and voluptuous. I don’t think I’ve ever really seen a guy “lose his mind” over an attractive Asian girl. I like pretty Asian girls and I’m not going nuts over them 😂 they’re like any other nationality of women.

HighValue · Answer

They are much less likely to get fat, often don't have tattoos, usually don't hate men and are much more fair and considerate in a relationship.

RavVid · Answer

I think you don't lose your mind seeing Asian girls cause you kinda got the wrong hormones. The appeal of Asian girls is femininity for the major part.

Anonymous · Answer

Because the culture that they come from allows them to grow up with an actual sort of sense of respect for not only themselves but for others as well.

Unlike most western women or at least the ones you'd find online. They see relationships as a power struggle rather than a team effort.

aceleon · Answer

they look more feminine theşr style is also more appealing.

RebelinSteel · Answer

They are not, not very many of then tbh. Very much a minority

normalice · Answer

I think it's just that men like thing women but aren't allowed to say so.

Anonymous · Answer

i look forward to the day when men stop getting shamed for liking women. You realize you're literally trying to say a guy is a pedo for liking an ADULT women just because her body is small and reminds YOU of a child.

stark04 · Answer

What's with women's attraction towards 6 feet tall guys or rich guys or guys with British accent?

82lynx · Answer

I never found them attractive. I like their hair, but I don’t fancy their eyes or skin tone.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Well, WHITE men are obsessed with Asian women because of the stereotype of delicate Asian female beauty and submissiveness.

Noodle_fan · Answer

If u are talking about japanese/korean girls , it is because they are weeb /watching kpop too much

Alex-Snow · Answer

I'm not yes they are attractive like all women but not obsessed.

Jackblue · Answer

Because they think they are submissive (they really aren't).

DextroShade · Answer

It's more about their femininity than their looks.

Twalli · Answer

I like petite girls regardless of race. Asian girls are generally more petite.

Anonymous · Answer

Geishas? What they see in porn? They just find Asian women more physically attractive than non-Asians?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like Asian women since they are short, and I am not attracted to any woman who is 161 centimeters or shorter.

Anonymous · Answer

Today's Asian women represent what white women used to be.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason Republicans are obsessed with Joe Biden.

LazerBean · Answer

That sounds like a kind of extreme generalization.

SolivagantRises · Answer

Stop being so insecure and racist!

NewgodOmega · Answer

I am indian so Asian and I hate Asian women

Massageman · Answer

Looks? Subservience? Good massages?

KostasKouvalis · Answer

They're the easiest women to get.

maj1nall · Answer

I like European women

Kasemmy · Answer

They're submissive af

strateguy632 · Answer

not obsessed

laly520 · Answer

race fetish

jahaims · Answer

Some men*

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Gross

Blacksnake285 · Answer

B j they good at it

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