I am not texting first anymore, just to be laughed at,?

[Anonymous]

I am over texting men first just for them to laugh at me…especially if I haven’t said anything that is worth laughing at. The two to three word responses irk the hell out of me. Damn just say that you ain’t feeling me and don’t want to talk. I won’t be text no man first anymore, if they want to talk…they got my damn number. I am tired of being playing me and them thinking they got me where they want me to be,

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Why do men laugh at text messages that weren’t meant to be funny.

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I just won’t be going on dating apps anymore. I just won’t be giving out my number anymore. I am just tired of the same shit with different men. I go for the decent ones that barely no one wants…and still get played with.

[Somoneelse]

Sorry to hear that. I'm sure not all men are like this. But I also wonder what kind of texts you would sent that apearently makes them laugh. As normal men would not laugh or make fun of a simple text message.

I think you had some bad luck with shitty men. I'm sure there are amazing men out there who would respect you as a human being.

[boggboss]

Why do u keep wasting time on guys that don't value you

[Asker]

Because the pickings are slim to none. There’s barely any pickings. It’s like going into the clearance section and seeing which item isn’t broken or which dress isn’t dirty.

[HateyouxD]

Honestly the right guy will be a changed man for the woman he wants. Believe that. So date and have fun the one meant for you will come

[boggboss]

How is it slim pickings sounds like the type of men u attract

[Asker]

I just won’t be going on dating apps anymore. I just won’t be giving out my number anymore. I am just tired of the same shit with different men. I go for the decent ones that barely no one wants…and still get played with.

[boggboss]

A man being decent has nothing to do with who is going for him even needy or shy insecure men can be shirty for relationships its about finding the right type of man for u if u are going to give dating a break that's equally fine tho

[Asker]

I already had my right person and he died

[boggboss]

I'm not a believer in only 1 person for everyone

[Asker]

I am. Because I could actually be myself with him. We liked a lot of the same things. I could talk to him about anything, he was my best friend. He was so caring , and i truly appreciated him and loved his personality.

[boggboss]

So whyvdo u think no other human out of the billions of males out their could do the same

[Asker]

It wouldn’t feel the same, it wouldn’t be the same connection. I am tired of starting over, the shits tiring. I am tired of kissing multiple guys/frogs.

I before I met my best friend/boo, I had given up and was about to delete tinder and then we matched.

[boggboss]

No you think it wouldn't be the same their is a difference

[Asker]

Out of all the men I have came in contact with. Only two men I have shit in common with…I am not going to find that again.

[boggboss]

U will as u went from only 1 and now their is 2 their are plenty of men out thier that are the same we humans are not as unique as we like to belive when talking about billions

[Asker]

I am tired of meeting new guys, the shit is tiring. Most of time we ain’t got shit in common. And on top of that, I am tired of reaching out first.

[boggboss]

So dont and why are u meeting them before knowing if u even have things in common that dont sound fun

[Anonymous]

Welcome to how 99% of men feel like on a daily and average basis when dealing with women.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm not sure I see where the question is.

[Asker]

So why y'all laugh at text that weren’t mean to be laughed at?

[BoopBoopBeep]

depends... what's the text?

[Asker]

It be a simple hello, how was your day. I honestly don’t want to go into other text because it’s naughty

[BoopBoopBeep]

if he laughs at hello maybe it's like a "haha hey there" joyous moment

otherwise maybe he's retarded and doesn't understand fully what you say

[Jamie05rhs]

Maybe lighten up a little?

[sirderpsalot123]

I type "lol" out of habit.

[Sam12348]

That sucks!