I make at least 3 times more money than my boyfriend. He has a normal salary but somehow he spent all his money in the beginning of the month. He already owes me a lot of money (his one entire salary) and he said he would pay me back but when he got his salary he first went and bought himself a watch, perfume and sneakers and nothing for me. And he didn't return any money yet. He took me on like 3 dinner dates. Then he insisted we go to some clubs which for me is very boring. I don't drink and I don't like to spend money on this plus I know he can't afford this but in the end we went. Then on 8th March (here everyone buys gifts for their girlfriend/wife) he first bought nothing at all and then the next day he got me a cheap gift which was not romantic at all. He didn't even put any thought in it.
And before even half of the month passed he is already completely broke. And again I gave him some money but I told him to either change his job or get an extra job. I work 12 hours every day and even on weekends while he never works on weekends, I sometimes work until morning and he's done at 4pm. We don't live together but he always eats at my place or I take him out which I prefer because I don't want to also have to cook.
I am exhausted of taking care of him and I am leaving for a short vacation tomorrow and he already texted me to leave him somd money 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I am a generous person but this is starting to frustrate me. I also want to be treated once in a while. I also want my partner to provide some security for me.
I suggested him to help me with my business and to share the income. I want to help him start building his own house or start his own company. But he doesn't seem to be interested in anything. He seems to be fine with how things are now.
What do you think
