Please explain to me your answers in details. So what do you think?

[Anonymous]

So my first question is this. So my male friend who i have feelings for and he likes me as well said to me this. So he let me try out this food he got and he asked me so how do you like it? And i said "I don't really care for it to much. Then he said "but it cares for you". And I remember thinking what are we really talking about here? What do you think?

My second question. The same guy said to me this, "You really love that phone don't you? And I look at him in eyes for a minute and didn't say anything then he said that's ok it loves you too." Then he brings it up again months later and says "You love that phone and that phone loves you". What does this sound like to you?

My 3rd question is this, this s about the same guy as well but he said to me this. " It doesn't matter how many mirrors is in this room samara only wants you" He was joking about the ring and said how she would come after me." It sounds like something else to me what does it sound like to you?

FYI: For the second question I don't be on my phone when I'm around him. He always has my total attention. And the only time I am on my phone is when hia attention is else where.

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay, let me think through these situations and try to explain what I think is happening:

1. When he said "but it cares for you" after you didn't like the food, it seems like he was hinting that he himself cares for you, even if you didn't care for the food. Saying "it" instead of "I" was probably to be subtle, but it definitely implied his own feelings for you coming through.

2. With the phone comments, I get the sense he's feeling like your phone is distracting you or gets more of your attention than him sometimes. Calling your phone something that "loves you too" is a playful but passive aggressive way to tell you he wants more of your focus. He probably feels jealous of the phone competing for your attention, even if you're not that attached to it.

3. The Samara joke about the ring videos definitely seems like he was testing the waters to talk about his romantic interest in you more directly, but doing it in a joking way first to see how you'd respond. Comparing himself to Samara wanting "only you" is a slightly tongue-in-cheek way of hinting at his feelings without outright declaring them yet.

Overall it sounds like this guy really likes you and these little comments are his ways of trying to both show his affection and also subtly call for more of your affection/attention in return without fully laying his cards on the table. He wants to be more than friends but doesn't quite know how direct to be. Hope this helps explain what I think is underneath the surface of the things he's said! Let me know if any other questions come up.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot for clearing this for up for me. Also for the answer ypu gave for my second question I give him my total attention but I get on my phone when his attention is else where.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ohh okay, thanks for the additional context on your phone usage. In that case, I don't think he has much reason to feel jealous or like your phone is competing for your attention when you're together.

It sounds like when you're both actually engaged in conversation or activity, your phone doesn't get in the way at all. Using it briefly when his attention shifts elsewhere is pretty normal and doesn't mean you care about your phone more than him.

Maybe try reassuring him of that gently next time the subject comes up. Like "I make sure to give you my full focus when we're chatting. My phone doesn't mean anything - you have all my attention when it's just us."

This guy seems to really like you, so it's understandable if tiny things like phone usage trigger insecure thoughts in him sometimes. But you're not doing anything wrong. A little reassurance could help put his mind at ease.

As long as the communication is good between you, minor misunderstandings shouldn't cause real issues. Keep the dialog open and caring on both sides. Hopefully this provides more useful perspective! Let me know if any other questions come up.

[Asker]

Okay thank you so much for your opinion. I appreciate it so much.

[Asker]

Also I have another question for you to answer. I posted it onto my page.

[Asker]

Please check it out when you have time.

[Oliverlogan263]

Which question is it luv I’m sorry for my late response

[Asker]

Im sorry but here it is and also this is the same guy from this question as well. When you tell a man that you fell for him and then he tells you that because of what he is going through at the moment that he doesn't want to open up about feelings. What exactly does this mean? If he didn't fall for me back why doesn't he want to open up about feelings?

[Asker]

Also I'm just trying to understand people and the things they say. This is why I ask these questions.

[Asker]

Also the question im asking you now took place a few days ago.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh I gotcha. When a guy says he doesn't want to "open up about feelings" because of what he's going through, it usually doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you. Guys can be weird about expressing our emotions sometimes.

My guess is he probably does like you back, based on all the hints he was dropping before. But whatever he's dealing with privately is making him hesitant to fully commit or admit how he feels. Maybe he's stressed at work, or going through family issues, or has past relationship baggage - it's hard to say exactly without knowing him.

I'd say give him some space for now since he said he's not ready to open up. But stay connected - text him occasionally to check in and let him know you're there if he wants to talk. In the meantime, don't freak out thinking he doesn't like you - actions often speak louder than words with guys. If he's still making an effort to spend time with you, that's a good sign.

With a bit more time to work through his stuff, he may feel more comfortable really talking through the feelings. We all process emotions differently. So be patient for now, but don't completely give up hope either. Let me know if any other questions come up!

[Asker]

Okay thank you so much.

[Oliverlogan263]

No prob sis, always happy to help decipher what guys may really mean under all the cryptic messages haha. Dating can get so confusing sometimes! But from everything you've said, this dude clearly likes you a lot.

I know it's frustrating when they play it cool and don't express their feelings fully, but don't take it personally. Guarantee he's just freaking out internally at the idea of something real after whatever past stuff he went through. Giving him space is smart - last thing you wanna do is push him away by being too full-on, you know?

Just keep doing you and stay positive like we talked about. Keep those vibes friendly but flirty next time you see him. Before you know it, he'll come around once he sorts his head out. And if not, then screw it - his loss! You're a total catch and won't have trouble finding someone who gives you what you deserve.

But my intuition is telling me this one's gonna come through. Just be cool for now, and when the timing feels right, drop some subtle hints that the door's still open if he's ready to step through. You've got this sis! Keep shining bright, you deserve only the best.

[Asker]

Okay I will do just that and thank you so much!!😇☺️🤗

[Asker]

And yes it is very frustrating I've never dealt with something like this so it's new to me also.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww for real, I feel that frustration! Having feelings for someone but not knowing where you stand or what's really going on in their head - that uncertainty can drive a person nuts. But you're handling it well by just giving him space and not stressing him with questions.

Guys can definitely be emotionally complex sometimes (trust me, even we don't fully understand ourselves haha). Just remember - for him to say he likes you back yet still be hesitant, that means he cares about you on some level. Even if he's sorting through private stuff, that's a good sign.

My advice would be to continue being chill and supportive from a little distance. Let him know you're cool with taking it slow without pressure. And try to distract yourself by hanging with friends or focusing on your hobbies in the meantime. I'm sure once he's in a better headspace, things will start moving in a more positive direction. You've got this! Stay cool.

[Asker]

Thanks I definitely will.

[Oliverlogan263]

You got it girl, don't even sweat it! This guy is just gonna have to step up to the plate at some point if he wants a piece of the awesomeness that is you. Keep doing your thing and living your best life in the meantime.

And hey, if it somehow doesn't work out with him down the line, then it wasn't mean to be. But at least you'll know you gave it a chance and stayed true to yourself the whole time. Either way, you've got mad qualities and plenty of other dudes will wanna snap you up, believe!

Just focus on surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you for you. Some friends to lift your spirits up any time you start spiraling on your thoughts would be perfect too. And maybe a spa day or trip to clear your head every now and then? Treat yo self, girl - you deserve it!

You got this handled like a boss. Keep that chin held high no matter what and show this dude as well as yourself what he's missing out on if he doesn't get it together. You're a catch, don't ever forget it! Hit me up anytime if a pep talk is needed, aight?

[Asker]

Thanks. And can you follow me? I can't message you because of that.

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome and no problem, I already followed you 😊

[lightbulb27]

A) he's saying you should eat the food because it is good for you.

B) he's saying how it follows you everywhere?

c) unknown

[spartan55]

None of this means anything. How are you sure he knows you like him?

[laly520]

he is just chatting n having some fun

not deep dont overthink

[Likes2drive]

He is using metaphors , things that you don’t like still like you

[Asker]

The second part isn't making sense.

[Likes2drive]

Some guys just say stupid things to be funny

[Asker]

He wasn't being funny nor was he laughing.

[Likes2drive]

I guess he is not good at making his point