Am I wrong for blocking my friends with benefits after he disrespected me?

[Iamherrrr]

My friends with benefits tried to make me seem like I was wrong for blocking him after he disrespected me. He said I'm not your boyfriend, I'm your friends with benefits. You didn't have to block me? Isn't this considered manipulation? I do this to everyone. When I'm pissed and don't want to to talk to a person anymore, I block them

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I blocked him because we got into a bad argument and he threatened me.

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I never knew I was wrong for my blocking my friends with benefits. That's sound crazy. It doesn't matter who you are. I'm gonna block you

[SolitarySolace]

He has a point. You’re not a thing you’re just friends do friends block each other? You must have unrequited feelings for him enough to feel the need to block him and start deeming things he says as disrespectful when you’re not an item so if he disrespects you in a friends with benefits type of relationship it means nothing.

[Iamherrrr]

That doesn't make sense. I'm only supposed to block my boyfriend and not any other gut. That sounds silly

[SolitarySolace]

Alright than explain why you unblocked him instead of keeping him blocked? That’s high school level drama and it’s ridiculous

[Truthatanycost]

You disrespected yourself first by allowing a situation that encourages both parties to be used for pleasure. He simply told you the truth. The truth is often uncomfortable so you blocked him for expressing it. He is just annoyed because he can't use you for sex as easily since you blocked him.

[Iamherrrr]

I agree. I understand that I made a mistake too on my end. Never afraid to admit but, I'm kot wrong for blocking him. That's doesn't make any sense at all.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Usually if I block someone, I commit to it and don’t unblock them whenever I feel like talking to them. They stay blocked. If I want them around still but just don’t want to talk, I just ghost or stay offline for a while

[Anonymous]

yu'rer right , ad u have every right to block people that disrespect u , he's just pissed off bc now he has to search for another friend

[spartan55]

How did he disrespect you? Respect isn't a factor in friends with benefits so I'm not sure what you mean?

[spartan55]

So, first he disrespected you. Now he threatened you? Girl, you have zero credibility. Why would anyone take you serious?

[spartan55]

This is making less sense as we go along...

[Anonymous]

What he said wasn’t disrespectful. What you did might been seen as childish. You just couldn’t accept the truth of what he said.

[Iamherrrr]

I blocked him because he threatened me a while ago. I already know what I wanted before I fucked him. I wanted to fuck but how am I wrong for blocking him. That sounds silly

[spartan55]

Sounds silly alright.

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe you should have said something about him threatening you in your initial post. That’s on you.

[spartan55]

She's making shit up as she goes.

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 probably. You’d think that be pertinent information to tell someone to asses the situation in making a judgement. Women always changing things to benefit them so that everyone agrees w them. I’m sure she wasn’t innocent in all this

[Opinion Owner]

*assess

[Iamherrrr]

I dont change shit to benefit me. If I feel like I'm wrong I'll admit. You guys are just a bunch of men that treat women like shit. y'all are young minded. It's sad.

[Iamherrrr]

y'all both sound stupid.

[Iamherrrr]

y'all want women to chase after y'all. That's y'all issue. I never knew you couldn't block a friends with benefits. I'm supposed leave him unblocked and let him call me when I dont wanna speak. Yeah. y'all sound stupid

[Opinion Owner]

lol y’all!!! Nothing wrong w you blocking him if he’s threatening you but you never mentioned that to begin w. Get your story straight.

[In_Trance]

Lol this won't last long

[Iamherrrr]

Lmfaoooooo! Stop, I'm trying to be serious rn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Iamherrrr]

I didn't go back. He sent me a message randomly. He's trying to get me to talk to him but I don't want to.

[goaded]

No. friends with benefits is all about not having strings attached.

[KrakenAttackin]

You need a lot mental help.