I confessed to the boy I like and afterwards I told him that I hope I didn’t make things awkward between us and that I just wanted to be honest and all he responded with was “you’re good” and “okay”, though part of me knows that he kinda liked me back too but he lacks commitment and he’s mentioned to his friends that he doesn’t find relationships interesting. All he does is look at me now which is nothing but I feel horrible now though I must move on. What do you think?
All the people here telling you that he probably didn't like you that much are lying and don't know anything about it. What you describing here happened to me like almost 1:1.
One day a girl I've been talking to and knew from school just texted me that she likes me but was too shy to admit it and I answered "That's good" and never texted her since I was scared, I thought what if she means something else and I never been in a relationship before and I never noticed. At that age I just didn't believe that somebody likes me, my brain couldnt compute those words. It's now like 10 years and I still think about it. She even reached out 3 months after that and I didn't noticed, she was kind and different I never to this day met somebody like that. I wanted to tell her when she wrote me again but I was so ashamed that a girl has a courage to ask twice, that she doesn't deserve such coward. About 2 years back, becouse I still couldn't stop thinking about that I at least apologise to her, told her that I was scared, becouse she didn't deserved that and I didn't wan't her to think that she did something wrong. 1 year back she texted me that she wants to know how am I. But I was acting like an asshole becouse I still believe she deserves better. I had my chance 10 years back. I hurt her and after 10 years I would like to take it back, no that's pathethic she deserves someone better. I would still love to at least be in touch, but I think she's tried her best, probably doesn't wan't to hear about me again. And maybe I have it the same when she wrote me I asked myself why is she torturing me like that I just wanted to move on and forger but I still think about her now, about that I never met a girl so cool as she. But that thought is also pathethic becouse I don't even know her now she's probably different person now. Maybe she really just wanted to know how am I? I feel ashamed even thinking about it.
So to everyone writing here that he probably doesn't liked her that much: Fuck off.
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Id say yes leave it in the past, also to answer your question on top, some guys are afraid of commitment or afraid of the thought of what were happend next if you were dating each other. Unless he wasn't into you which could also be a slite possibility.
He’s just not that into you. Even if you felt absolutely certain he was interested, without confirmation from him you must accept that your interpretation of his feelings were inaccurate, babe.
On top of that, you have to keep in mind that when you choose to pursue someone, that is you making a choice, not them. In other words, you decided to act on your feelings because you are in a place in life where you’re ready to date. Unfortunately that does not mean the person you’re interested in will be looking to date someone as well. That is another factor as to why confessing feelings is a risk. Anyway, all you can do now is move on.
Try not to focus so much on him and let this phase pass naturally. I’m sure he will come around, except with a more restricted approach as to not give you the wrong idea from now on.
This depends on how much you want this relationship and what it feels like to you.
Does he ever kiss you just to kiss you, and you really feel a connection?
You can push for answers such as "Do you think we have enough to stay together?"
But this will either annoy or reset him depending on where he is in his own head.
Maybe the idea of losing you will ignite him. Maybe it won't.
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I think he doesn't have the same feelings as you have. So, there is no need for him to commit. He likes you and accepts your feelings toward him but that doesn't mean he will reciprocate your feelings.
I had that happen to me. We were friends for some time. And I told friend of mine she was attractive. And he went off and told her and she came back and asked me out. She was attractive. But I'd never considered dating her. And when she did she really caught me off guard. I responded seemingly the same way as this guy.
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commitment isn't for everyone
liking u a alone isn't enough to commit to u
to commit is to invest time, energy, money etc
some can't provide that, some dont want it n rather keep it casual cuz busy of other more important things, some selfish, some wants to use u without having any attachments
so stay safe n be careful Because he’s immature and listening to bad men who wish him to be as miserable as they are. If you are kind bd good to him, he will regret it someday.
Because he likes you but doesn't see much value in committing to you. Here's a video that might give you more insights:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/k3WCMMbsZJ0Commitment is a pretty huge investment; lots of time, lots of emotions, usually lots of money as well. Liking someone isn't anywhere near as risky as committing to them.
"If he wanted to, he would." I used to be critical of the saying, but now I believe full-heartedly, and I think we all should.
The question is.. Can you move on, or are you stuck?
Well commitment actually cost time, energy, sometimes money... for some people, they are not always ready for that. You may just declare it to him before you move on.
He won't make an effort to commit if he's not interested in having a long term commitment with you.
Because he doesn't like you🤣. Omg talk about brain rot.
He is selfish guy.
He doesn't like you enough to commit. Move on.
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