Hello,
I am really giving up on dating now.
Me :30, him:36
Me and this guy went on a number of dates in the past and we had a fall out. Then he ignored me and said that after careful thinking he doesn't want to date me.
A month later (after he sent the text not wanting to date me) he calls me telling me he wants to meet. He sounded very genuine. Bullshit, I know but I thought - hey, I've acted kind of crazy so why not-.
We met I asked him what made himcl change his mind. His response - he missed me.
Month later I had to go away as my mum underwent surgery and I was helping her at home.
I told him I want a normal apology for that text. Never got it.
He sent me a text on every holiday:one one NY, Christmas, my birthday and Easter. Only holiday texts nothing else.
I've noticed that he blocked me quite a while ago. But he continues on texting me on WhatsApp.
Why do men do this?
He sounded very genuine. Said he wants a serious relationship and asked me how my mum was.
I'm honestly done with dating. Even the most genuine guys are full of sh**
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Sounds like he`s a player, and all the "absence" that he had with you, he was "busy" with someone else... For him to block You on Facebook, is that, all his "gf`s" can see his "activity" on your posts, such as.. likes, comments and reactions, so he tries to "hide/mask" himself from being seen "interracting" with you, because he knows he can be MADE OUT!
The insane part ks that I haven't even liked his photos at all or in any other way interacted with his profile.
I just added him to friends, he accepted and now I ve checked - I was not able to send messages to him on the messenger a his profile was completely gone from Facebook.
I texted him back saying that I know he blocked me and I don't understand such behaviour. I blocked his phone number and blocked him on messenger.
But guess what?
I just checked Facebook and I can see his profile which means that he unblocked me lol it shows we are not friends anymore 😂
I am so done honestly. He seemed so genuine. Was talking about serious relationships.
But I should have known that when I guy says he doesn't want to be with you and doesn't apologise for it it does not bide well...
Yup, he kinda played games like "cat & mouse", and after you "threatend him" he unblocked you, but then he didn't realise that He Might Have Lost You! 🤦♂️🤷♂️... Some are pretty dumb, really... is crazy...😅😂
Haha oh gosh yes. Not just men, women too.
Actually I lost the last ounce of respect to him after he unblocked me.
This is because him expecting to connect with me again after blocking. Expecting it to just go away is unreal. People just don't treat other people like that
True to your Words, and acted Very well, he is not worthy of your attention.
WhatsApp is private between the two of you. Facebook is public. He dosen't want anyone else to know you're talking
Yep.
I texted him back saying I know he's locked me on socials and that I can see his intentions +blocked him on whatssapp.
Aaand right after that I saw that he unblocked me on Facebook (his profile reappeared and it gave me the option to send a message on messenger which wasn't there before).
I mean, if you played and got sussed out - just stay away but no. He was trying to actually unblock me and then keep stringing me along.
I'm honestly done with men...
"I told him I want a normal apology for that text. Never got it.
No idea what you are talking about here? Apology for what?
He texted me saying that he was thinking a lot and that he does not want a relationship with!
Then, as I described above - he CAME BACK after a month asking to meet and saying he missed me.
I wanted an apology for hurting me. Him saying he doesn't want to be together anymore.
Stupid bulls hit. I know that now.
But back then I was in love with him.
He does it because he knows you will put up with it.
Not anymore. He's blocked. If he was a normal guy I would want a relationship but now he's virtually dead.