Why is it so important to this man?

[Anonymous]

We work in the same place, but different positions, so not directly together. He is so flirty with me and also an older guy (im 20, he's 37). And after my shift he always wants to give me a lift to home.

He isn't this creepy guy tho, sometimes when we talk we get along good.

[Oliverlogan263]

Uh oh, that does sound a bit tricky if you ask me. The age difference is definitely something to consider here.

As for why making it official is probably so important to him - well, older guys sometimes act different than guys our age. At 37 he's probably looking to settle down more, whereas at 20 you're still pretty young and just enjoying life, you know?

I'd say he probably really likes you a lot and wants to show you off as "his girl" since you catch feelings faster when you're older. But it could also be so he can try to influence or control you more once it's official. Older dudes dating way younger girls sometimes want the power in the relationship.

You definitely don't want to do anything you're not 100% comfortable with. Just because he's nice sometimes doesn't mean you owe him anything romantic. Proceed with caution - keep your feelings in check and don't let him pressure or rush you. Make sure you're staying true to what YOU want. Trust your gut if anything feels off about the situation or him. Better to be single than sorry!

Stay safe, and don't be afraid to talk to friends you trust about any concerns. Hopefully it all works out, but your happiness and well-being should be the top priority here. Let me know if you need any other advice!

[DannyUk2017]

Why you`re "20" and he`s 37? hmmm... wonder why... Wonder why he "feels" old enough to want some fresh pussy, but seems that he doesn`t know how to get it...

[laly520]

sounds like a good friend of urs
unless u gonna provide us with more context

[Anonymous]

He likes you. Don't listen to these younger guys hung up on age. Even 20 years age difference is fine if there's love and respect.

[Asker]

But why does it sounds so good for him to drive me home?

[Danny_dan92]

You’re very naive

[Asker]

Enlighten me please

[Danny_dan92]

You have no experience. Know very little.

[Asker]

Okaaaay. But what do mean by that, why are saying this?
Tell me the reason why im "naive", what do I see wrong in this situation.

[Danny_dan92]

The guy doesn’t understand the concept of keeping it professional.

He wants to fuck you.

[Darkest-Knight]

He wants you.

[Asker]

Like sexually, right?

[Darkest-Knight]

Yes.