Guys, why is dignity in woman a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I mean, it feels like that being gorgeous, cool but not sleeping around with people is a turn off for guys? Why is it the case?

[RavVid]

Dignity and elegance go hand in hand to me and both are highly attractive qualities.

As soon as boys start getting erections we would like to use them. But girls take to about 17 to decide to lose their virginity. So the average boy has a drought of 7 years of frustrated intense sexual desire.

Not surprisingly, the average boy wants to put that drought into a past faded memory. So they are only interested in girls that put out. At your age I think most boys will be making up for 'the drought'.

A bit later in life, when we get more interested in relationships, we want a low body count girl maybe a virgin.

[MrOracle]

It's a turn-off for men who are looking for quick, easy casual sex. If those are the men you chase, then, sure, you're going to disappoint them. Here's a hint: the men who are the most attractive & popular - the ones that most women are attracted to - are virtually NEVER looking for a relationship or commitment, they're strictly looking for casual sex. And they have little trouble getting it, so if you won't give it to them, there are 10,000 women in line behind you who will be happy to do so. And they do so because they're all hoping to get a relationship from him, and none of them will.

If you actually pursue the kind of men who ARE looking for a relationship, this will not be a problem for you.

[Harshbro]

They never will though, people always choose the best mate. They’d rather be part of chads rotation than normies girlfriend. Crazy world really

[Anonymous]

Instead of saying the answer you want in the question, why don't you ask, "Do you think dignity in women is a turn off?"

[jshm2]

It isn't. Pretension is.

Too many want to be treated like a queen, while having the attitude of a whore.

Not "sleeping around" is a fantastic virtue. but it's not a selling point, like someone claiming they have a "clean restaurant" but not many customers. The food is bad or the staff are. But "clean" should be a given regardless.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's not to the right guys, the ones that see a woman's value and dignity are the ones that will respect her in the healthiest ways, if that's a turn off then that should be a red flag that the guy is looking for the wrong things and will most likely not be valid or reliable for a relationship or commitment in general.

[Anonymous]

It’s not. The “men” you are talking of must be POS. You need to talk to other men. Most men don’t want a girl who’s been run through. The only time a man might want a girl who is experienced is when it comes to one night stands. But when it comes to a real relationship, I know for me I want a girl who has little to no body count.

[Flatmanlewis]

This is an absolute turn on and mandatory “must-have” for any woman of quality. I think you need to collect the opinions of a better class of men.

[slatyb]

Why do you believe this? There are men who are intimidated by well-groomed women, and more confident men who are attracted to them.

[sawno]

Not sleeping around is a turn on for guys. If people are bitter over that they are probably just mad you rejected them.

[Berethor]

Well men who want easy women are men who are looking only for sex in most cases.

[spartan55]

Because your 'dignity' is surrounded by a lack of humility.

[bolverk]

If you think that guys find a woman that has dignity a 'turn off' the you are dealing with the wrong type of guys, the vast majority guys would prefer women who have dignity.

[DextroShade]

You are only seeing the Chads and ignoring the vast majority of men that want serious relationships.

[Harshbro]

The rest are literally invisible to women lmao

[Anonymous]

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I'm sorry I can't even take such a question seriously. You either are completely clueless or you really believe the nonsense you're posting and if it's the latter I just want to laugh harder.

[Fabrizio6699]

I don't know why those girls make the best GFS they are kinky and usually down to bring a friend in.

[NathanDavis]

this is not a thing...

[ohsheeT]

It's not. It's a turn on

[Anonymous]

You are talking to the wrong guys.

[OtterMan68]

it's not for real men

[shortster]

That is a turn on for me

[Abdulwahh]

No it's not a turn off

[jahaims]

It's not the case

[Pohjolan]

Its not.