Are dudes naturally touchy to girls? Who are the people you are touchy with? Is there any meaning behind which part of the body you guys touch?

[Anonymous]

There's this someone I'm getting to know with and he's very touchy person. We're comfortable with each other, so we don't mind any physical contact. We consider each other as friends. It just came to my attention that he's extra touchy to me. He tend to pinch my arms and waist or tickle my waist. He puts his hands on my legs/thighs- pinch them sometimes or slap them. He can't go a day without doing those things. The most part he touched are legs/thighs and waist. I don't see any problem with it, its just that it's kinda weird because he's being very touchy or really do physical contact even though it's unnecessary- intentional one kind of physical contact. There was this time I was standing and he wants me to move, instead of saying excuse, he just touch my waist and guided me to where I should go which causes me to almost stumble. I wonder if this dude is interested in me.

[DishLady]

Guys don’t touch people they don’t like. Period. They don’t force themselves to speak to or make contact with people they don’t like. This guy is already friendly with you, so he makes sure you’re comfortable with one another. Next, he touches an area (like your waist) that’s non-traditional for anyone in the workplace to touch (like your hand, shoulder or general arm area) usually indicates that he’s not afraid to do so — meaning he gets the sense from you that that’s ok.


Possibly he likes you…. But your description reveals that you definitely like him. If you don’t, you have to adjust your body language.

[Anonymous]

He clearly wants to have sex with you, but because he is hesitant to speak about it having fear about your response. So just he is limited to touching and doing all much touching as much he can.

It's like when we keep desert before a child and tell him to not eat until we say them to, then how a child would keep touching it, would keep playing with it, would keep moving his hands around it and would be waiting to get the green signal so he could eat that finally. It's similar behaviour.

[BadApple69]

Hell yes he is interested! I for one am a very touchy feely guy but I would only touch a girl like you described if I was dating her. The fact is he wants to touch you all over but will take what he can get for now.

[SolitarySolace]

All of men are, not me. I find human bodies to be disgusting. And men are disgusting for finding those bodies attractive.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah he probably is into you if he is touching you that much. Never had that much contact with someone who was just a friend.

[Anonymous]

the "how to pick up girls" guides tell them that touching a girl a lot makes her want to have sex with them