Okay so first of all no, I am not 39. I am a male in early 20s, and would like to seek some opinions here.
Recently, I couldn’t get my mind off the idea of cross dressing and wearing women's clothing. I’ve had impulses in the past of purchasing women's clothing, but I know I will regret it because I will feel disgusted with myself after. I’m not sure if anyone else gets the same impulses and I’ve been trying to fight with it over the past few years, but now I am wondering if I should just indulge myself seeing that these impulses keep coming back?
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So not sure why the age matters in this at all. Also I am not sure why this is in Girl's Behavior topic. I can move it to Guy's Behavior if you want considering that is what you are asking about. Doesn't matter to me either way. To answer the question you pretty much summed it up when you said you will feel disgusted with yourself. So don't do it then. You already know that you are going to be disappointed so why waste any money on something you no you will hate yourself for in the end. That makes no sense. So simply don't do it. Solved.
Sorry, I’m not sure, I think the topic got allocated when I posted. It’s just that these urges keep coming back and something about it excites me. It ends up consuming a large chunk of my time fantasying about these things.
Yeah that means you have a kink or fetish. Try to keep busy and that will minimize how much you think about it. Also keep reminding yourself how you KNOW you are going to feel after. That could help.
Yeah that’s what I’ve tried to do, but when these thoughts come in I really have trouble focusing on anything else. It’s like, my mind keeps going in circles, of buying or not buying and I’ve wasted almost the entire week recently, while I should be getting to other things to do. That thrill of exploring something new is too exciting. So I was wondering if I should just indulge myself a bit so the feelings can go away. It’s really eating me up. Also, as you mentioned previously, could I ask you to move this question to the right topic?
I moved it for you. You can ignore the automated message you probably just got. That was just me moving it. So yeah the issue is you are pretty sure you are going to be disappointed with yourself after. Regretful. That is what would drive me personally not to do something.
You must just discover what you’re sexuality is.
How would I discover what my sexuality is? Despite the behaviour I described above, I generally thought I would just be a normal ordinary guy
Go to gym, straight to men shower. See if they make your d*** hard. If they do and women also, you’re probably bisexual
I think if I do that I would definitely get a hard on… i’ve never been naked in-front of another guy before.. but i don’t know, i’m scared to find out😔