Is he just trying to hook up? HELP💗🙏🏽?

[ivydavis]

So this guy took me on a nice dinner date and was super gentleman like. We had some wine. We were talking about our fav movies and how we wanted to watch them w eachother. He asked if I wanted to come watch a movie w him after dinner and I told him I had to get up early the next day. Then he called me that night after he dropped me off telling me how he had a great time. That was yesterday. Now today he told me we should go see a movie in theaters and I told him yes but he also mentioned wanting to watch one of the movies I had mentioned which isn’t in theaters so he’s suggesting me coming over. He has been telling his friends about me and told his family he’s going on a date so I don’t think his intentions are purely sexual but I just want to be safe. Thoughts?

[Blue_Brady]

You have a brain, if you do go to his place, you can just not sleep with him and watch a movie, I don't think it's that hard. Does he decide what you do?

[ivydavis]

I totally agree. I just don’t want to waste my time hanging out w him if he is only looking to hook up. I haven’t dated as a 21-25 year old until now. I was with my ex since highschool so I’m not sure how it goes or what’s normal lol

[Blue_Brady]

Just like you hang out with any of your friends, don't do what you don't want to do. If he wants you for a hook up, leave.

[spartan55]

If you wanted to be safe you would have just gone to the theater instead.

[ivydavis]

I think he’s saying we go to the theaters and then go back to his place to watch the movies. He’s a film major so it’s not a super red flag. Just trying to be cautious

[spartan55]

If you wanted to be cautious you wouldn't go to his house.