Guys, Is it a yes?

[Anonymous]

So there’s this guy who is a vendor at my job and we talk a lot and have mutual interests… I had told him I got tickets to see this comedian some months out and I had an extra ticket etc so when he texted me the comedian was pretty funny I said well if you are free on said date and time and his response was “thanks I appreciate it”… is that a yes? Or is that kinda left in the air cause it’s far out.. I feel like he flirts with me cause he is always smiling and always finding a reason to talk to me when he comes in to do his orders. When I’m not there he doesn’t talk to any of my coworkers.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's kinda tough to say for sure sis. Guys can be so unclear sometimes!

On the one hand, "thanks I appreciate it" definitely doesn't seem like a straight up "yes" to the invite. Kinda leaves it hanging like you said.

But the context that he only talks to you and seems to flirt when he's there makes it sound like he's probably interested.

If it was me, I might send him a quick follow up text closer to the date being like "hey just confirming, we're still on for the show next Friday?"

That way you get your answer without having to bring it up to him at work and make it awkward. Over text he can't exactly dodge the commitment question lol.

My bet is he'll say yes since it seems like he likes you. But at least you'll have a clear answer so you're not left wondering!

And if he says no, then you'll know where you stand and can decide if you wanna keep talking to him or find a new buddy to check out shows with. Hope it works out girl! Keep me posted.

[spartan55]

How do you know if he doesn't talk to any of your coworkers?

[Asker]

They tell me after he leaves that he never says anything to them lol

[spartan55]

Sounds like a fun place to work 🙄

[jahaims]

Just ask him