How to approach my uni crush?

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I have a crush on a guy from my Uni. I met him 1 month ago in a seminar.
We were assigned into a group project together with 2 other students (1 other guy and 1 other girl). We also sat next to each other the whole time. When he first saw me, he smiled to me and said "What's up". Then during class, he'd randomly show me how he scored 100% in a quiz from the course or ask me if I already presented my solo-project (since he was a little late and missed the beginning of the class). Or when I decided to do the partner exercise we got assigned to with the girl next to me instead of him, he acted mad and jokingly said "I didn't want to do it with you anyway" while grinning. And before our group presentation, he said "If I mess up anything during presenting, you got me". After our presentation, he fist bumped only me for us doing our group project "so well".
On the last day of the seminar we shortly talked about our majors. As a goodbye he fist bumped me and said "Take care, we’ll see each other around".
I’m not sure if he’s just a really nice and open guy or if he kinda liked me. And if he liked me, why didn’t he casually ask me for my social media or number? And why did he say "We’ll see each other around" if he clearly knows that we don’t have any other common classes anymore?
I tried to forget about him & just overcome my crush but it’s not working. I found his IG and send him a request on a fake account which he didn’t accept lol. Then I found his friends IG and stalked them, hoping I could find out more about him that way. I literally see his friends every other day around the library or in the cafeteria but I never saw him with them. I once saw his car parked around the gym area but I didn’t see him in the gym. He probably had another sports class there.

The semester is about to end in 2 weeks and we will all have a 2 month summer break. I don’t know how to approach my crush. I’m too shy to send him a request on IG. What can I possibly do? Help your girl out

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Whoa that's intense haha. Sounds like he was definitely into you from all those little flirty moments in class! Guys don't usually fist bump just one person like that unless they like them.

I'd say your best bet is just messaging him on IG. What's the worst that could happen, he says no? At least then you'll know for sure. And he might say yes! You never know till you try.

Maybe send a message like "Hey it was cool working with you on that project, was thinking we should grab coffee sometime before summer break if you're free." Something casual like that, you don't wanna come on too strong.

If he still doesn't accept, honestly just forget it, not worth stressing over. But I have a good feeling about this! Summer's coming up, if he says yes that'd be perfect to hang out and see where things go. You got nothing to lose, you're awesome, so go for it! Let me know what happens, you got this!

spartan55 · Answer

Cut and paste the same post for the 3-4th time. Is there something wrong with you? Stop spamming this post.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You approach him like an adult, not with a request on IG.

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