Does every good characteristic about a guy mean less if he isn’t good looking?

[Anonymous]

Like it seems that traits such as being smart, loyal, having a good sense of humor only matter if you’re good looking. I’ll give an example I easily make my coworkers laugh all the time by jokes I crack I also help them a lot but I’m the person who isn’t invited to events outside of work

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say, some woman don’t understand right away, some might never understand this. You have somebody who can attract you right away and you have somebody who can attract you after a period of time has passed.

Think of Rachel and Leah. Rachel was the favourite wife during the courting process but after marriage, Leah became the favourite wife, and Rachel was an unwanted distraction that Jacob had to pretend to love to avoid fighting among the sisters out of jealousy.

If you google celebrities that were clearly chosen for their beauty and wealth and not their personality, the divorce rate is 100%, even if the poor partner gets very little in the divorce.

After a while, steak becomes boring, and what you really want is a bowl of oatmeal in a peaceful home where you are respected and treated like an equal.

[kylee2437]

I never understand why men want women that aren’t attracted to them. You are losing out on so much by wanting a woman that doesn’t like you physically

[Asker]

So if no women want me if the proper course of action to give up on dating

[Asker]

Also I didn’t express any attraction to any of these women it’s more in general how I’m not accepted even as a friend

[Anonymous]

because looks are always gonna matter whether you like it or not

[Asker]

I can’t even seem to be accepted as a friend

[Opinion Owner]

yeah it does suck but one thing I know is that the friends you do make you'll know they're actually there for you

[Asker]

Like it makes you feel less then a person when you can’t seem to do anything even to be accepted as a even a friend

[Asker]

Like they utilize my intelligence they rely on me to figure out solutions to certain things but that’s all I’m good for then they just go back to ignoring me

[Opinion Owner]

I'm guessing if you refuse to do things for them, they start slandering you?

[Anonymous]

No, having good characteristics is the only chance an ugly guy has.

[jahaims]

Yeah