I’m in love with two different men but have a boyfriend please help?

[Anonymous]

I've been with an amazing man for one year, and recently, I went on Reddit to make new friends because he's been working a lot. I stumbled across a beautiful soul and man that I feel I connect with more than I do with him. The only problem is that this guy lives 10 hours away, whereas the guy I'm with now lives just 20 minutes away. Please help—I don't know what to do. If my boyfriend found out I was talking to this guy, he'd be very upset, and if this guy found out I had a boyfriend, he'd be upset too. I just feel an extreme connection with this guy. Help?

[Breanna_nonbinary]

The world would like you to believe that you have the capacity to only love one person at a time. This isn’t true. Every time you learn to love it’s different. You love people in different ways. To say that we can’t love more than one person at a time is to say we only are allowed to love one parent.

[HelpfulWoman]

you are a terrible person and cheating. at least emotionally. let the boyfriend go, he deserves better

[jahaims]

You aren't in love and you are too immature for a healthy relationship

[Summeroflove]

Break up and be honest. Don’t wait until this gets worse

[Asker]

Break up with who? I’m not with this guy

[Summeroflove]

Your boyfriend break up with him and don’t cheat

[Summeroflove]

You have to end things now and be straight up about what’s happening. Be sensitive but be honest

[Asker]

I’m not dating the other guy though

[Summeroflove]

You’re in love with another man that’s emotionally cheating. I don’t care.

[Summeroflove]

You’re not in love. Break up…… it’s that simple. Stop stringing him along

[Summeroflove]

And you need to tell the other dude you have a boyfriend. What you’re doing is WRONG

[spartan55]

Aren't you quite the Jezebel