Do guys appreciate and admire girls as much as girls appreciate and admire guys?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Guys I think, admire girls more, in quantity . Because we so easily do it from afar and we can appreciate on a whole other scale.  I think girls admire internal traits and status more in general, which means they need to spend time around those guys or take part in gossip about them, which also are fewer compared to, average to good looking girls who are plentiful or girls with respectable qualities who are a sizable addition despite being 5ers or below in looks. As for quality of admiration and appreciation  it's impossible to tell and is honestly just so different from person to person. And there are plenty of reasons for both to dislike the other group in general, for different reasons and biases but still.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

See this depends on the man as well as the woman, some people admire someone more then someone else.

I do think people who look for quantity over quality are cringe I don’t care what sex that you are. You should be looking for quality admiration not the quantity because what matters in the end is finding who you’re happy with and not wanting anybody else.

Not just using people as a means to boost your own ego because you don’t have anything else going for you but how many bodies you can rack up that goes for BOTH sexes. Stop just getting attention and focus on finding whose right.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Admire and Appreciate are rather different.
Guys definitely admire females more than we do them. But they don’t appreciate us and that’s why women have raised so well to the point that you guys want to use the women’s washroom. Like come on.
They’re rather ill-minded in the ways of how they admire us.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Of course. Specially on a muscle boy. That ADONIS BELT is hot as hell.

that SOLDIER JAW.

Not many simpletons in the modern age have this. I don’t care too much for abs. Having a 6-pack looks nasty to me. But an Adonis belt is a good sign of strength

MrOracle · Answer

As a general rule, most people of either sex appreciate and admire the opposite sex when they have attributes that the first person values. Which also means that if they have attributes that the first person doesn't value - even if society in general does or claims to, then they aren't going to admire or appreciate that person all that much.

Not everyone values the same things, so you can't make a list that covers everyone of a given sex, but there are things that most of a given sex tends to value, and so if you have those things to offer, the odds are very much in your favor, and if you don't, the odds are against you. A few exceptions always exist, but the more rare something is, the harder it is to get it, and the higher the likelihood that you won't get it.

Makeushiver · Answer

Wow, what a pleasant to read post. It doesn't call anyone an idiot or moron. It condemns no one, makes fun of no one, doesn't demean anyone due to political parties, religions, perspectives etc. It's a question that is about gratitude. As such, I'm not sure of its appropriateness for this forum but thank you. It is re-assuring that people can be compassionate and not completely self-centered.
As such, I really have nothing to add since my posts are usually hitting on someone, telling someone they're full of shit etc.

NathanDavis · Answer

in most cases, for my experience... it has been mutual and reciprocated, yes...

how much or who does it more? I really have not been bothered to "measure" who does it more, it's never mattered either... it's mutual, and that's it, lol

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

People generally sexually admire the opposite gender, specifically variants of the opposite gender that they are personally attracted to.
Appreciation is usually about gratitude. People are only grateful to a person who brings them joy or protects what they value in some way.

236color · Answer

It's hard to say, not being female for me to be confident in an answer to this question. I'll tell you this, a LOT of guys don't feel like they are appreciated or admired.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

We definitely appreciate and admire girls a lot. Probably the same amount as girls appreciate guys.

I think about the women I like to surround myself with in life, and every single one of them are truly top notch people.

ManInChains · Answer

Girls don't appreciate guys at all. Feminism anyone? On the flip side, girls don't give guys a reason to appreciate them. Sorry, not sorry

LiamJHayden · Answer

Depends upon the guy and the type of admiration you mean. I admire qualities like interests and happiness level. Looks? Yes, if due to working out/fitness, but hair and eye color and other inherited traits are "whatever" to me.

Juxtapose · Answer

Are you kidding? Guys clearly want women more than women want guys. Otherwise if women wanted guys more, there would be a ton of male prostitutes.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is obviously about the same. Unless you are a bitter incel of course.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Are you crazy? There's SO much to admire!! I think to be female in USA America is to live a life in active defiance!

Anonymous · Answer

no. guys in general admire girls way more than girls admire guys

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Love is love. 💕💕💕💕😇

worldscolide · Answer

Depends on the girl, but yes. The woman I admire most in my life is my wife, it's why I married her.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Girls like to be admired.. guys like to admire. Girls would love to be admired by many guys but hate it when they partner admires some other girl.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls appreciate guys more because guys know to do it to her would send them to jail

Ladsin2 · Answer

I think C. I don't think most women appreciate most men.

msc545 · Answer

Sure. The smart guys among us hate you as much as you secretly hate us.

elaphe · Answer

It depends on the individual guy or the girl.

Anonymous · Answer

I appreciate girls, but most of them don't appreciate me.

Viking_Girl19 · Answer

I think it's 50/50

MisterWack · Answer

Same.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I think it’s equal

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Fairly sure women hate men.

Jerre · Answer

I think it’s equal between girs and guys

Saggitariusdiva · Answer

some.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I am sure of it.

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