Girls is a guy catcalling you acceptable if they’re hot?

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The person replying here is a pink account. Hmm 🤔

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

no. if you're hot but are saying very disrespectful things to a random stranger, it's still nasty and scary.

though some people might use catcalling to mean any compliments from male strangers (polite or not), for that yea i think there could be a double standards for some people.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

The fact the individual is behaving in such a way subtracts from their attraction. They may have looked like a god to start with but the moment they act in such a disgusting way they change into a troll.

MisterWack · Answer

Cat calling / making comments that aren’t appropriate or making noises is harassment. I’ve seen people regardless of gender doing this and it is annoying, humiliating also makes majority of opposite gender feel uncomfortable.

Rosexøxø · Answer

It’s flattering when the guy is interesting- grabs my interest on a sexually visual level. Aka I like him.

It’s a bowl of uncertainty when he doesn’t have my interest, I don’t know him, and my judgement can or can’t make a call on what his intentions are or he’s capable of.

Is it ever acceptable? Nope.

It’s immature socially, and it’s not romantic. Even if done by a cute guy “ “, it’s not romantic or respectful because it’s quite simple and lacks effort. It’s the most basic form of communication or it’s disrespectful communication.

What if we turned it to a sex call? What is he calling?

To do that on the street makes her seem like a whore and he loses respect for himself. YET some guys will buddy buddy him- SOME guys- and the whole thing is just very barbaric.

We live in a modern world. Gotta figure a different and appropriate way to talk to her. Doesn’t have to be talk either. If say for example they went to the same college and he looked at her, she smiled and they made conversation and SHE seemed comfortable around him and THEY BOTH were interested, then he can pursue other things and still try to keep the respect for them both in tact.

I wonder if cat calling would be okay amongst friends. Nope. Seems disrespectful. I wouldn’t mind being cat called by my husband. Maybe he’ll even use that to signal a proposal to the bedroom. Then we go from there. 😆 but from strangers?

I think it should always be unacceptable. A girl MAY WANT A BOYFRIEND, but she can’t let cloudy thinking hide the fact of what that is.

Let’s ask them-

Ladies would you like to be sex called by a guy on the street in front of people? Everyone watching?

Ladies would you like to be sex called in a dark alley and no one around?

Neither is good, but you do you boo 😂

Let’s be honest. It’s not a flattering thing. Would guys like a sex call? Sure. Some guys will go it on a moment notice with anyone. I just hope for their sake they check if she had any stds first.

Same for the ladies.

Guys and Girls- you do you boo boos 😂

Don’t get desperate people. The sex call isn’t everything you want in one package. It’s a gamble and it’s self disrespecting.

BeeNee · Answer

I think a clear distinction has to be made first. A guy saying, hi beautiful, you look lovely today in a normal voice as you walk by---not catcalling. This is what I consider a normal human interaction from someone interested in me. Contrast that with some dude yelling down from his window, you have great tits, call me,"...no. Just no. I don't care how attractive you are. If some guy is willing to do that, think how many other women he's potentially yelled that out to. I've gone my entire life without yelling stuff like this out to any man no matter how hot he was, because people aren't meat. You want to get to know them or hell, even just sleep with them, go up to them and chat about it. I was raised to have respect for myself and to have the men in my life treat me with that respect, and I've not been sorry for having done so.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I don't care if guys catcall me.. It has never bothered me because I don't dress to be catcalled unless I want to be catcalled lol.
Plus I am not scared of men, since I pay attention to my surroundings and I'm always ready to stab a bitch in the neck if needed.

ChillNsweet32 · Answer

Idgaf, I just ignore it and continue on with life.
Hot, ugly, it doesn't matter, this form of flirting isn't appreciated by most and can come off as rude and/or creepy. Just don't touch me or approach me and hopefully my boyfriend isn't around either because that wouldn't be good

PetLover24 · Answer

I find catcalling disrespectful, ignorant, low class / uneducated, and typical amongst you know good for little or almost nothings. It's very typical for tramps to be catcalled.

I remember last year walking in a mall with mum & turning heads of about 5-6 guys. Not because dressed cheaply but because I have a natural beauty. Not one of them cat called.

Why? Because they all looked like decent respectable guys. Not tramp lovers.

ManOnFire · Answer

They may not exactly be okay with it, but they will definitely be less bothered by it if he's what they consider to be a super good looking guy, yes. Even if they deny that don't believe it.

Girls - that's right I mean girls - will only respect a guy by the way he looks. And whether or not it bothered her to be catcalled, she will still get enjoyment from telling people that a guy was into her even if she's not into him.

RageBabe · Answer

It shouldn't be permitted by either. Really, why is it better accepted if the person doing it is attractive? I believe that whoever says that is quite shallow. We have all experienced catcalling. Hot or not so hot didn't matter to me—it was just an unpleasant feeling. 90% of the time, in my opinion, because they typically act vulgarly when they catcall, which is not how gentlemen should act.

Caroline91 · Answer

Hot or not... just no. He's a zero to me the moment he does that.

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Answer

Nah its never appropriate regardless of looks. It's pretty degrading if you ask me.

Curiouskitty99 · Answer

I was staying the obvious. Obviously it’s bad no matter what

MemeSupreme · Answer

no it's just how charming are you as long as it's not like straight disrespectful or OVERLY forward. kinda hard to do that in a way where i don't feel awkward as shit so it's not worth the risk lol

Zack-Bann · Answer

Cat calling is cringe and never works

Approaching a stranger you find attractive and trying to strike a flirting but respectful convalescence works a lot better

And yes the hotter you are the more receptive they will be

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

No it's still equally as creepy. Attractive men can be considered creepy too

Abbycado · Answer

Nope, and I am referring to the type of catcalling that we associate with the term.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Nah. I've been cat called by arguable 10's as well as 1's and the rainbow inbetween. But it's still annoying.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

Just nah. save it for committed relationships that you both agree to happen

mandyfire98 · Answer

Nope, I don't give a crap what someone looks like. Behave

mobiusforniner · Answer

It’s not okay. It literally tells a woman that you see her as a piece of meat.

milfordbravo · Answer

I remember in the 70s and 80s there are a lot cat calling. The share I created wasn't good encouragement

electromagnetic · Answer

Catcalling is never okay.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. It’s not ok.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No it makes no difference. Just as rude.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

Hayır, benim karakterime uymuyor.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Cat calling was pickup lines from the past

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