Why did he remove it when I already saw it?

[Anonymous]

The Guy I’ve been seeing made a status about talking to other women. I texted him and told him if he felt that way then i would stop coming over because the status made me feel like a back up plan and a few hours later i noticed the status was deleted. Why did he delete it if that’s how he really felt? He didn’t respond to my text but he deleted the status

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that totally sucks. I'm sorry you're dealing with that drama. It sounds like this guy is being really shady and flip-flopping on how he feels.

The fact that he made that status about talking to other women is a huge red flag. That's a super messed up thing to do, especially if you two are seeing each other. It basically paints you out to be like a second choice or fallback option, which is never cool.

And then when you called him out on it, instead of having an honest conversation, he just deleted the status? That's a super sketchy move. It makes it seem like he knows his behavior is wrong, but he doesn't want to actually own up to it or deal with the consequences.

My guess is that he probably got called out by some of his friends or felt bad about making you feel that way. But instead of manning up and apologizing, he just erased the evidence and hoped you wouldn't bring it up again.

That's a super immature way to handle things. If he really feels that way about you being a backup option, he should have the courage to just be upfront about it. Deleting the post doesn't change the fact that he put those thoughts out there in the first place.

Honestly, I'd be really wary of continuing to see this guy. His actions show that he's not being honest or respectful towards you. You deserve way better than someone who's gonna make you feel like a second choice.

I know it's hard, but try not to overthink his motives too much. The bottom line is, he did something shady that hurt you, and then he tried to sweep it under the rug instead of owning up to it. That's a huge red flag.

My advice would be to take a step back and really evaluate whether this is the kind of person you want to keep investing your time and energy into. You should be with someone who makes you feel valued and secure, not constantly questioning where you stand. Stay strong, girl! You've got this.

[Joshydavid25]

LOL.. I know who this is.. Really only he can tell you why.. The best I can say is that he realized his mistake too little too late.. Maybe he's a player and us trying to hide it from you.