If he initially liked me why would he follow my cousins but not me?

[Anonymous]

we never followed eachother on social media and I tried to but he didn’t accept it… but I noticed he followed one cousin who said she didn’t know him and my other cousin followed him after I told her I liked him and was trying to reach out but they follow eachother on all platforms almost

but this was years ago he is married and I’m curious

[Nikki1989]

It's just social media.

[Anonymous]

Most likely it was because he liked your cousin more based purely on looks. Is she pretty?

[Asker]

Yes in a sexual way.. because of her online post is sexual but yes she is pretty. He made me feel special and it hurt a lot because he was the first guy ever to call me pretty.

[Opinion Owner]

When you say he liked you first how is that? I ask because you said he didn’t accept your request on social media so that indicates to me maybe he didn’t really like you.

[Asker]

We were teens when he did these things but he Like he payed attention to me, he changed a page of my book for me, his mother all of a sudden asked to carpool at camp and our moms still have eachothers number, his twin sister tried talking to me as a friend, he complimented me the first guy to call me pretty just little things

But about 4-5 years later that’s when I tried following him

[Opinion Owner]

Ok but that was when you were little. Obviously things changed. He went through puberty, his likes changed as far as seeing women physically speaking as far as what he likes. A lot of what you said doesn’t really indicate to me that he really liked you the way you think he did.

[Asker]

Oh he just felt sorry for me?

[Asker]

I sent him a message thanking him for his Kindness and he never responded

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe. Hard to say. Maybe his likes just changed. You don’t have a man?

[Asker]

No but I’m good. I’ll focus on me

[Opinion Owner]

Have you had a long term relationship before?

[Asker]

No I haven’t

[Opinion Owner]

May I ask why?

[Asker]

Probably not good enough but I was considering sex work virtually

[Opinion Owner]

Why? I don’t think that’s a good idea but that is up to you.

[Anonymous]

He has a crush on your cousin and is trying to get to her through you.