I keep asking him to go through with suing me. I told him that I can't get my mental health together and he still won't do it. Why?

[Anonymous]

I felt hurt by this guy and I really wanted to be with him... I think he just wanted sex and that hurt me because he made it seem like he wanted more

It really mentally messed me up and I became very depressed and then angry to the point where I tried to embarrass him online, involved his family... found his church and told them how he is... I hated him. Any new girl he followed I was jealous and tried to sabotage it... I had went through counseling, hospital everything and I just couldn't stop. He put a warning out on me by the police...

I told him to just go through with it and I won't fight it.

[Anonymous]

Suing you is expensive and you’re probably broke. He’s better off getting a restraining order and putting you in jail if you violate it.

[Asker]

Well why won’t he do that

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he feels bad about what he did to you

[Asker]

I doubt that

[Opinion Owner]

Then I have no clue. Maybe you just haven’t been annoying enough for him to bother.

[Asker]

I outed him to his family for liking trannies, commented on friends and family about him… new girls he follows, texting him bullshit

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds pretty annoying. I have no idea why he hasn’t hit you with a restraining order yet.

[Asker]

I know I told him to go through with it

[Opinion Owner]

Beats me why he hasn’t

[Asker]

Why do you think…. You think he will?

[Opinion Owner]

I have no idea. But you need to move past this obsession with him. It’s hurting you too. I mean, I totally get that you want to hurt him back after what he did to you, but enough is enough.

[Asker]

Why am I not allowed to ruin his life like he ruined mine

[Opinion Owner]

Because it’s illegal and what he did isn’t illegal. It should be, but it’s not. And I do think he feels kinda guilty about what he did to you. That’s why he hasn’t filed a police report or a restraining order.

Did he take your v card?

[Asker]

I wanted him to take it but no he didn’t… I thought he would but I didn’t tell him I was a virgin

[Asker]

If he really felt guilty don’t you think he would have talked to me?

I think he’s not pressed charges because he filing for divorce… I didn’t know he was married

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm. Maybe. And yeah. A lot of players are married. Is he getting divorced because of you?

[Asker]

No he divorced 2 years after we stopped talking

[Opinion Owner]

Then I have absolutely no clue why he hasn’t pressed a restraining order against you.

[Asker]

I don’t know either. I know it’s probably not guilt or compassion

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry that happened to you. At least he didn’t take your v card.

[Asker]

Do you think he will go through with it or what do you think

[Opinion Owner]

I have no idea. Sorry. Good luck. I really do feel bad for you. That could’ve been me if I wasn’t careful.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he really dodged a bullet by not getting serious with you!

[Asker]

That wasn’t the question but he was married

[Talktomeplz55]

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