I’m attracted to a guy at work and I think it’s triggering me badly… should I put in a transfer for another job?

[Anonymous]

I struggle with bipolar disorder/ delusions and depression… I started to become attracted to a guy and I feel like it’s triggered major insecurities like every little thing… I try my best to just ignore him but we work right next to eachother.. I feel myself becoming obsessed with him and I’ve had issues with that in the past and it’s stressed me out..

I feel really jealous and sad because he asked my coworker whom I’m really cool with is she’s going to a concert and he’s kind of shy… it made me sad while he walked past my door. He didn’t say anything

im thinking about transferring to another school…

[Finchie40]

I’m sorry to say this, but if you suffer from bi polar disorder and depression , you are best not to date anyone period , because unfortunately you will put them through a world of hell broth your episodes. I dated a girl that didn’t disclose to me that she was bi polar and had severe depression, , my relationship with her was a complete nightmare because it was like being in a relationship with Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde , one minute she was sweet and loving to me and the next she was this demon spawned from hell towards me out of no where. I thought I could handle her once I found out what she was diagnosed with but nope, she got worse and worse to the point I had no choice but to throw in the towel on her , I did feel bad for her for suffering from it , but it started to take a toll on me as well , to the point I had to get away. So anytime I start dating a girl , I immediately check her medicine cabinet lbs cause that mental disorder is messed up big time. So you are best to find a guy that suffers from it as well

[Anonymous]

You probably should give it more time to see if it passes before making any life changing decisions. It could be significantly worse. Imagine if he liked you too, but one or both parties fumbled the whole ordeal.

[Asker]

I feel like a guy should make it known that he likes you. If not then it means nothing

[Opinion Owner]

Apparently the guy you were pursing didn't. Find someone who will or has.

[jazzy34]

Sure. You can do that. But what are you going to do when it happens again? You can’t hop from job to job every time you develop a crush on someone and it’s not mutual. That’s immature and unprofessional. Find another way to deal with it. Limit contact with him and don’t put yourself around him as much.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah get out of there before your pussy takes control of your mind and you do something you’ll regret

[Asker]

I’m definitely not having sex… he’s an awkward guy

[Danny_dan92]

You’re attracted to him

[Asker]

I know

[Danny_dan92]

Right. So as I said

[Staximus]

Don't fool around with your coworkers, that's stupid. Nevermind the guys at work

[Staximus]

You need to get a hold of yourself

[Twalli]

If it's negatively affecting your work, you need to transfer.

[In_Trance]

Yeah