Should I say yes to this suitor?

[enimsajcitystars]

last September I had suitor whom I rejected online. I sent him a message through Facebook saying that I am not interested in having a relationship at the moment. But the truth is I was so turned off by him because of his attitude. His not "bad" don't get me wrong but my ex-boyfriends would always treat during dates to the point that I don't bring any money with me when I'm out on a date with them. The last time I hung-out with him both of us were very conscious with money that we budget everything that we are going to buy. We pay for our own food or popcorn or movie ticket. Its OK if we're friends but his my suitor, he should at least impress me right?

and now the true problem? HE DID NOT RECEIVE MY MESSAGE FROM Facebook! and I can't find the message I sent him in my sent items but I was sure that I sent it, and he was waiting for my answer for an entire month! we never saw each other nor contacted one another after I sent that message so I thought he already read it and understood that he was rejected but today he called me asking for my answer!

what should I do? please help me!

P.S.

I am not a B*tch who likes to be treated a lot I just want the guy who's courting me to impress me first and shows me that his making an effort for me to return his feelings. I mean its OK if were going out sharing the expenses on dates and all but he is only on the stage of impressing me, should he act more?

[RustySub]

I don't have very much money, certainly not enough to pay for two meals and doubles of drinks. I think it's extremely shallow to have doubts because he wasn't able to treat you. You shouldn't want to date someone because of what they can offer financially, but instead whether you enjoy spending time with them, whether they make you smile, laugh and be happy. If they do that, then that should be all you need.

He shouldn't need to flash his cash to impress you, him as a person should be enough. If not, then you clearly don't want a boyfriend, you want a walking cash machine that you can get what you want from.

[enimsajcitystars]

thanks for answering!

I know that and I am not into rich and spoiled jerks either

its just that for me if he wants to hang out he should've invited me to his place and watch a dvd or something so that we won't spend any money

its fun hanging out with him but it always bothers me how he would be so "money-conscious"

is it normal for guys to act that way when their with someone their courting?

[shyguy89]

i can tell you now if your waiting for him to impress you he probably won't give him some time try to work your way into it like ask to go out after he just got some money or something and don't bring nunthin or be the girl in need of lifting something cause he's going need some small things to help his asteem

[enimsajcitystars]

your right, I'm probably comparing him with my ex-bfs

THANKS you helped me a lot really!

[shyguy89]

thats what I do shy guy out...

[Anonymous]

You know when people delete a message it deletes from your sent messages also. He probably read it and just deleted it. He seems like he doesn't get the hint that you don't want a bf.

[enimsajcitystars]

oh my gosh really?!

this sucks! his probably toying with me argh!

THANKS A LOT YOU HELPED ME A LOT THERE! ;)

[Opinion Owner]

youre welcome girl :)

[-Darling]

Did he do that on the first date? :-S I would sure as hell dump his sorry ass, wtf:S

[enimsajcitystars]

thanks for answering... This is also what my friends told me

[Anonymous]

give it a chance. who knows where it can lead?

[enimsajcitystars]

you thinks so?...

thanks for answer by the way ;)