My guy friend saw me naked!!!

[Anonymous]

OMG

We went to a concert together...and I stayed at his house (at his friend's house really...), because we both live in a different city and his friend offered us the accommodations...

He slept in a room next to mine (with his cousin - another guy...they're best friends...), and I slept on the couch...

When everyone went to work and me and my friend stayed in to prepare for the concert, I went to take a shower. There was no lock on the door, so I just assumed he wouldn't go in...LIKE A NORMAL PERSON!

haha

But...when the water stopped running I guess he thought I was finished so he came in to take his tooth brush and I was just putting my coconut lotion on...and he just stood there...shocked...and...I don't know..embarrassed I guess, but I kinda freaked!

I was shocked too, and just stood there as well! It was the most idiotic moment of my life! OMG

Then I grabbed a towel and covered myself and then he finally BLINKED and said 'wow'! OMG wtf

And then he kinda looked like he was going towards me...but then he kinda ran out! HAHA

It wasn't funny at the time but it is now... xD

At the concert he was normal, and after that we went out...to shoot pool and he got abnormally close to me every time I wanted to shoot...he blew in my ear and softly enveloped my waist a million times...

It was very strange...because he's usually VERY shy!

At the end of the night when we got ready for bed and we brushed our teeth, we stayed up talking, and he didn't want to go to the room to sleep on the same bed as his cousin (they're bot very tall so they can't really fit well in that bed! haha), so he slept with me on the couch. It was kinda cramped but I liked it and he liked it too...or so I think...

When I woke up his arms were around me and he was breathing on my neck...

I didn't want to wake him...so I just lay there... :)

It was the sweetest thing!

Anyways...what d you guys think of this?

SO did this thing with him seeing me naked kinda trigger something to make him be more forward with his feelings...or is he just feeling bad for bursting through the door like that...or what?

Please help!

I don't know where we are now...

Updates

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Haha

Ok..now for some answers from the guys!

What do you (as men) think he thought...and in what kind of an emotional place could he be now?


Thanks!


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[Blake26]

Of course that moment spurred him on. He was just minding his own business (sorta) and "ummm WOW!, I just discovered something!" It definitely got him past his shyness and I don't think it really affected you too much either otherwise you wouldn't have probably slept on the couch with him. What's even more funny is that the split second after he saw you he was only naturally drawn towards you, like "I wanna come closer!" ha ha and then he thought better of it, regained his composure and fled out the door after you grabbed a towel. OMG that is absolutely hilarious! He umm, definitely saw you in a different way (trying hard not to be funny, can't help myself) so that got him to move past his shyness really fast. As far as his current emotional state, I don't think I can really put a target on it, you know his thought life is going like 500 mph right now! Definitely is thinking about you a lot, don't know if you guys are going to go forward with this is or whatever, or maybe you'll just try to pretend it never happened! It sure sets up some more joking and flirting with him, maybe him sitting in a chair and you come up behind him and reach over his face, cover his eyes and tell him not to look, no doubt a smile is going to be on his face, that's pretty cute and funny. Oh well right?!?! =)

[Asker]

Haha

That IS funny! xD

Hm...perhaps I'll do that...soon....

And maybe it'll be just what he expects when he opens his eyes! hahahaha xD

:P

[tommyboy69]

Your kinda right in your assessment that him seeing you naked helped him move past his shyness. Put yourself a guys shoes. When you do that, the most important thing that happened was YOUR reaction when he walked in on you. You didn't react like a normal girl who got walked in on. You just stood there. Believe it or not, you gave the first signal to move ahead. By just standing there and letting him stare, you told him to look, you didn't mind he was looking. You wanted him to look, and that gave him the confidence to make more moves on you. Every move he made you accepted and went with. You know exactly where you to are. Stop wondering what's going on and go out with the guy!

If he is a very shy guy, you can bet his cousin gave him some coaching on the situation. So I'm curious, when you think back on that night, how was the cousin acting?

[Asker]

The next day we all went out for coffee and his cousin sat next to me and then when my friend came, he asked him if he should move so he can sit next to me... And then after...he had a little smile on his lips...like he knows something I don't! xD

[chocolate-lover]

haahaaa ...

WOOOOOOOW...this is...will I don't know :)

but I liked what you said

i can figure it out easily, the guy likes you, and you too like him !...i think so

then seeing you naked seemed to break the ice (I mean his extra shyness)...

and if he didn't like it to sleep with you on a couch he was just able to sleep were ever he wants other than the place you are going to sleep at.

his attitude after seeing you naked doesn't mean he felt bad at all,...he said "wow" !...i guess he wanted you for a while ...but he thought he just can't ...so he ran out...

if the guy felt bad ...he would be more shy around you after then, but he didn't ...he wants to get more close and be more intimate ..just give him a chance ...and he won't be shy anymore I think ...

i just can say , if you really like him, just go with the flow

GOOD LUCK=)

[A-Soldiers-Wife07]

I definitely got chills! I'm a sexually deprived Army wife with a deployed Soldier so you can bet what I think haha!

[MissLynn20011]

i think he wants to show you how he feels now.., ;'

[The-Dude-Next-Door]

He should have known you were still in the bathroom when the water was off. And he should have known it is not safe to assume that a girl is covered even when the water is no longer running. I think he did something sleazy, and he was hoping to see you naked.

Anyway maybe his sleazy trick worked. Maybe he has liked you for a long time and seeing you naked caused him to overcome his shyness. Anyway you need to play the same trick on him to get even. But hopefully it will be fun for the both of you next time as it was the first time.

[TexPlayboy]

Hey.. I am sure time has answered your question. Three months ago is a lifetime in a friendship that becomes sexual. So, which way did it go? Was he brave enough to make the move or did you have to do it for him?

I am guessing you guys are screwing like rabbits by now.. :-)

Good Luck,

James

[jacquesvol]

First thing I looked at when I finished reading: (Age:18 to 24)

Quite human, quite normal, you didn't lose anything,didn't you? You might have gained a great guy. He might be waiting for a remark from you on what happened (feeling uneasy whether you are going to be mad at him or not, wondering if he spoiled his luck), AND appreciating your charms.

PS,

Think about condoms or the pill.

[Euro-Raver]

Shy guys are shy, so sometimes they need a little encouragement to nudge them forward. I think seeing you naked did the trick =p

[Mr_Ant]

He liked what he saw and that gave him the courage or impetus to act on feelings I am sure he already had towards you. I hope you guys work out as a couple.

[Littletad]

What kind of coconut lotion was it?

[Hollister78]

Haha interesting question I like it

[here4you]

thats cute

maybe he likes you now?

[Saphi]

Did he like what he saw

[curiousinquirer007]

So, what ended-up happening in the end?

[jordan123]

he for sure likes you

[Meggi]

thats funny