My boyfriend hit me because I let my friend draw me naked?

[Anonymous]

My friend asked to draw me naked and i said ok because it's normal we are just friends. When my boyfriend saw it later he beats the shit out the guy and he hit me too then just went outside. He is not answering my calls or my texts and he didn't come back home since 3 days. What do i do? Was i wrong?

[godfatherfan]

1) more then anything, if he hit you he is a piece of shit and that is domestic abuse. You should report it to the police. Any man that hits a woman, other then in self defense, is no man.
2) if this "friend" was male, then you were also in the wrong. Women love these fantasies that they have straight male "friends". Sorry, WRONG. he wanted to draw you naked because he wanted to see you naked. he wants to fuck you but your not open to that yet. Ladies, if you have a straight male "friend", that friend wants to have sex with you. period. there is no other reason to be "friends". he is being friendly, not friends. big difference.

[Asker]

How do you know that?

[godfatherfan]

because I am a straight male. and I am not stupid.

[Anonymous]

You are both in the wrong. Obvouslly he should never hit you. You should never get naked with another guy without your boyfriend knowing about it beforehand and being ok with it whatever the reason. I'm sure you'd be pissed if he had one of his girlfriends strip for him, whatever the reason, or stripped himself for a girl to check him out.
You are both in the wrong.

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

I think it's safe to say physical harm is worse.

[Opinion Owner]

@ALittleBlondeGirl I agree.

[Dansexuall]

@ALittleBlondeGirl no. Sometimes a guy needs to keep a woman in check. This was one of those times.

[Opinion Owner]

@Dansexuall if he can't do it with his wits and must rely on hitting someone, he isn't much of a man.

[ShepherdOfFire99]

It's never okay to lay your hands on anyone let alone a weaker woman.

[ShepherdOfFire99]

But still. Naked in front of another is wrong. I'd leave her.

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

@ShepherdOfFire99 It's kind of creepy that humans take possession of other Human's bodies to the point where their partner can only be naked with them. Nudity is natural. O_O

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

@Dansexuall A man doesn't need to hit a woman.. Just simply leave the relationship. Violence is for mindless animals. Humans have an impressive ability to communicate verbally.

[Dansexuall]

@ALittleBlondeGirl no, violence is a natural normal part of our instinctive nature.

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

@Dansexuall No, it is a product of lack of self control and a mental defect.

[Dansexuall]

@ALittleBlondeGirl you're really dumb. So every animal on this earth is mental defective?

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

@Dansexuall They're not as intellectually evolved as humans are, yes.

[loofah]

His violent reaction is not excusable at all. He was very wrong to do that. Are you and the other guy physically okay?

And yes, you are wrong too. Wrong in that you should have discussed with him first about being drawn naked by another male. That's a very intimate thing. Most people would expect that. If he didn't cause physical damage to you guys, I would say give him a bit more time and then apologize. Maybe write him an apology.

[BeautifulWreck]

How would you feel if he stripped naked for a female friend? You'd wanna beat the fuck out of him as well. Its a respect thing. You didn't respect him enough to keep your clothes on and not show your intimate parts to another man. He didn't have any right to put his hands on you but yes, you were in the wrong.

[Cmasterson]

It's never okay to be violent no matter what the reason, I think you should have told your boyfriend ahead of time, not ask for his permission but to see what he would say- other than that you should run and never return, never settle for someone who can be violent with you and others.

[queenmariereigns]

He shouldn't settle for a girlfriend who allows guys to see her naked

[Cmasterson]

he's not settling, if her friend was an artist, it would be professional.. however I'm not sure if that was the case. @queenmariereigns thats like saying people settle for their partner if they occasionally are the nude model in an art class.. and their friend just so happens to take it.

[queenmariereigns]

I'm pretty sure he was not professional or she would not be asking this question

[queenmariereigns]

She never said she was a nude model so it's safe to say this is not a regular thing

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

@queenmariereigns You're the first girl I've seen slut shame another girl. O. o

[Knuckles77]

If your friend is a guy I can't blame him. It's wrong to hit people period. I'm not going into that. If your friend was a guy and I was your boyfriend I wouldn't be any longer. Only 2 people I'm cool with my girlfriend getting naked in front of: me and her girly doctor. Period. No exceptions.

I also think this is entirely your fault. I'm pretty sure you knew he wouldn't be ok with this and did this to make him jealous or as some act of retribution. I'd find it real difficult to believe you didn't know him well enough to know this wouldn't be ok with him. I wouldn't be ok with it and neither would most guys. Did you ask him if he would be ok with this prior to doing this? I'm guessing no. I'd say you two are finished. Sorry. Only thing you can do is apologize but I doubt anything is going to fix this.

All of this is assuming your friend is a guy. I can't see how he wouldn't be. Why else would your boyfriend go nuts like that?

[r-one]

I'd end the relationship. It isn't okay to assault other people or hit your girlfriend.

You were wrong to strip for a friend and not talk to him first, especially since you'd know him better than us that he's a super jealous throwback to 1950. Don't forget he's really wrong for attacking that guy and laying a hand on you.

You should've called the cops on him cause if this is all it takes for him to flip out he's got a real problem that will likely hurt other people down the road.

At all costs I seriously suggest you stop seeing this guy, it is your life but this would be a deal breaker for me if I was a woman and if my girlfriend reacted like this I'd end it.

[Jusjay]

What kind of stupid question is this? You let some guy draw you nude and you ask why your boyfriend is mad? What kind of world do you live in

[Asker]

Because i didn't do something stupid. That guy's my friend so

[Jusjay]

All the same, that;s no reason for him to hit you

[XRabbitHeartX]

Firstly yeah it was wrong to let another guy see you naked even if it was for art. You should have talked about it to your boyfriend. It's just the respectful thing to do. Secondly your boyfriend shouldn't have hit you. It's a major red flag and if I were you I'd ask myself if I want to be with a woman abuser..

[ArtDent]

So you seriously believe there was nothing more to it than 'art'?

[Asker]

@ArtDent Luke what?

[Asker]

Like *

[atomique]

What you did would bother a lot of guys, but that is no excuse for him hitting you. I would break up and move on.

[Asker]

I'm planning to

[Anonymous]

How would you feel if you heard he got naked in front of another woman you didn't know. Without him telling you? Put yourself in his shoes.

[Asker]

I wouldn't hit him

[Opinion Owner]

Imagine how he was feeling at the time. Hurt, betrayed, and confused. However his violent behavior towards you is unacceptable. If I were him I would've scoffed and broke up with you right then and there without laying a hand on anyone.

[Asker]

He's a bit into violence

[hifromkai]

If you'd done that to me I wouldn't be your boyfriend anymore

Since you were drawn naked it means the other guy has seen you naked and for long enough to draw you and you could've been doing anything afterwards or before hand

Especially since its a guy friend

I'd be unsettled if it was a female that did it

[SmoMan]

Even if he sees what you did as cheating he is severely overreacting. Call the cops on him

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

It scares me that 4 men think beating a woman is okay and perfectly normal...

[SmoMan]

@ALittleBlondeGirl right? I don't care if she fucked 100 guys while in a relationship, it's no excuse for physical violence. Breakup in most situations sure, but never assault.

[ALittleBlondeGirl]

Agreed. And, vice versa. A woman shouldn't strike a man, either. No one should hit anyone unless it's self defense!

[SmoMan]

@ALittleBlondeGirl self defense or sparring. Only two reasons I ever hit anyone.

[Anonymous]

ok your boyfriend really needs to chill! if i were you, i would break up with him immediately! hitting you or your friends is not something acceptable in a relationship.
in further addition, if he gets jealous over the simple fact that your friend is an artist and finds creativity in you, which is a normal artist thing, i don't even want to think about how would he react in other situations. this is not fine at all! it's not like he's entitled to your body!

[Anonymous]

He is severely upset ! you cheated on him and he lost his temper! are you FUC****G INSANE? and you ask that question on GAG?

[Fattybassdrum]

Yes u did something wrong by letting another guy see you naked ( friend or not), but he has no right to hit you! I understand hitting the other guy for even having the balls to ask someone else's girlfriend to pose nude for him! Bathing suit would of been fine with me but nothing less!

[Anonymous]

You were wrong to let another men see you naked while you are in a relationship
That is considered cheating
He was wrong to hit you and that guy
He should have just dumped you

One last question
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Did he draw you like one of his French girls?

[Cookie7]

A GUY CAN NEVER HIT A GIRL. NO MATTER WHAT. END OF STORY!!!
I know that you didn't intend to hurt him and was planning on being with him, but he just saw the real face and it''s better that he did it know. LEAVE HIM!

[Pyrofox]

Damn! Has he seen any of the old artwork styles? Like some of the Greek and Roman art are full nudes. How immature though.

[BuchitaBuchys]

You were wrong for letting another man see you naked. I can't blame the guy for hitting you both, he was wrong too but got dammit woman are you stupid?

[Noxifer626]

I think you did something very stupid, but that still doesn't give him the right to be violent towards either the other dude or you.

[bente2]

It's a bit strange to let someone draw you naked, but anyone hitting you is a waste of time and should be put in a mental hospital.

[Vesuvius87]

He has anger issues. It's not normal to hit every time you get frustrated or your feelings/ego is hurt. Break up and make him your ex boyfriend ASAP.

[Littlett25]

You probably should have discussed doing that with your boyfriend first but he shouldn't have beat up anyone

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Nope, you weren't wrong. He's a jealous motherfucker. Forget about him.

[Anonymous]

You layed naked so that another man could study every inch of your body. Without telling him or asking him. you're an idiot if you have to ask if you did something wrong.

[Anonymous]

If you're in a relationship with him, you should've asked if he was ok with it. He under no circumstances should have laid his hands on you. But I understand where his anger is coming from.

[dudeman]

he shouldn't have hit you he should have just dumped you. i dont blame him though in these situations you never know what a person is going to do.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

That's what i love about women. Even though they are hit, they keep pursuing the guy no matter what. Anyone care to explain?

[Vesuvius87]

Makes me wonder too. I would be absolutely disgusted if I got disrepected in that manner in a relationship. That's straight forward disregard for my health.

[ArtDent]

Yeah, he should have just broken up with you. Violence is rarely the answer (because revolution)

[ArtDent]

What do you mean "he didn't come home"? you live together? who's place is it?

[Asker]

Yes we live together because we pay rent together. I didn't see him since then

[ArtDent]

What a mess. Was it worth it?

[Asker]

All i think about is him now

[ArtDent]

I'm just trying to wrap my head around the mentality where you thought he would be okay with that.

Oh well. It's best if he leaves you, he won't be tempted to be violent. I don't see how he forgives and forgets, considering how you think you did nothing wrong.

Good news is, you'll get over it.

[iblaze]

Both are wrong and for clarification how did he hit u and where?

[Anonymous]

If he's a hitter you are better off without him.

[atomique]

I agree

[Anonymous]

You know goddamned well you were wrong. I would dump your ass and not look back.

[roundbobby]

You need to break up with your boyfriend

[Homebakedcookies]

I shouldn't even have to answer this question.

[Anonymous]

Your seriously not asking that question right?🙄

[jmmmfi2]

Yes you were wrong