Lifting and carrying women?

[Anonymous]

This is a 2parter:

Guys: Can you pick up and carry your gf/most women?

Women: Can most guys lift you and carry you? Is it a turn-on if they do?

A bit of background: the other day I was messing around with a friend of mine, she's about 6 foot, maybe 5'10'' and I'd say around 70 kg. She poked me in the ribs and I said"watch it, or I'll just put you over my shoulder and walk back." She didn't believe me, and did it again, so I crouched down and using one arm just lifted her over my shoulder, kind of into a firemans lift. She was laughing and shrrieking about it, and I carried her about a mile like that, before putting her down, but I could have carried her much further. She said I must be really strong to do that, and I was confused. I've never thought of myself as THAT strong, I'm not scrawny but I'm no schwarzenegger. But apparently most guys can't do that. Another time she was moaning that she had to walk all the way over to get her washing, so I just carried her out, this time int he princess carry, got her stuff and carried her back, up three flights of stairs. Is this that unusual?

Same happened at a concert. This girl said she couldn't see, so I put her on my shoulders and let her sit there. Apparently this is also not normal? It's not that hard to do is it? just let her sit there, maybe for an hour or so?

any answers are appreciated, thanks

[Anonymous]

I've never been carried. But then again, I've never been normal weight. So I never though a guy would ever be able to carry me without breaking their backs trying. If I were a 55-kg girl, I'm sure guys would be able to carry me just like in movies. But 55 was my weight in 5th grade, I weighed 75 in high school, my heaviest was 94 and now I weigh 86 kgs. We had a game in high school, where we had to get on to the other side without touching any of the ropes placed strategically. Most girls get on the guy's backs and then jump over the ropes, and when the guys saw me they were kinda scared, so I just slipped from under the ropes. It was humiliating because I was the only girl the guys couldn't (or wouldn't) carry. It would be awesome though, to be carried by a guy, even for just 10 seconds. Yes, it is a turn on.

[AlanFir3]

Young guy speaking here. I'm 15 and 70kg for a 180cm frame, I am a bit of an exception in terms of strength as i'm both genetically gifted and I've been training in rowing for over 7 years now, and I know for a fact that 86kg isn't really that heavy, heck I might understand the 94kg where without proper balance it's more likely to go wrong, but as someone who lives in an environment where for a teenager a 70kg squat is the norm i can definetely say that those guys needed to step their strength up cause there's no way they were physically unable to do it. As someone who also finds carrying a girl, the heavier the merrier, a turn on I would love to just make you feel right without having to worry about "being too heavy" or "possibly hurting someone" as I find it both very disrespectful and not very nice; this isn't to say that you should go around blaming people for not wanting/being able to carry you, it is just to say it's not something you'll never experience

[Tula1]

I like it when a guy can pick me up like it's nothing. don't know this girl's actual experience with it with others but I know in my case, most guys never tired and I always assumed that I would be too heavy. It ups the attraction factor when a guy can lift me. I think carrying me like a romance cover may also make me feel embarrassed unless I was already the guy's girl friend but I embarrass easily. I have liked being lifted with one arm and thrown over the shoulder or being thrown over a couch. Don't ask.

[ladylifter]

I enjoy carrying my girl in the shoulder sit position. Do you have any particular preference on being carried?

[Tula1]

No preference in particular.

[countrygirl123]

Yes they can because I'm kind of a small package and heck yeah its a turn on...shows that the guy has got at least a little muscle and can take care of me if needed :)

[ladylifter]

I enjoy carrying my girl in the shoulder sit position. At parks, concerts, the beach, at home, etc. Do you have any particular carrying position preference?

[countrygirl123]

I like being on his shoulders at concerts and such, but normally if he picks me up and carries me somewhere, I'm normally in a scooped position or however he wants to carry me lol.

[ladylifter]

That’s awesome that you like being carried, especially in the shoulder sit position. Do you like cuddling with him? Are you familiar with this cuddling position link , similar to the shoulder sit position? What do you think?

[countrygirl123]

Oh I LOVE cuddling with him...but LMAO that position is just awkward sitting down, I do let him rest his head on my lap though if he's tired on the couch :)

[ladylifter]

I love cuddling and resting my head on her lap as well. (: Lol, is that other cuddling position awkward in a physically uncomfortable way, or is it too intimate, or too distracting, or is it something else? It's easier to do on the couch or bed.

[ladylifter]

Lol, I'm genuinely curious about why it'd be awkward to do with your boyfriend, if you don't mind explaining. If he moved into that position, would you welcome it? I respect your opinion, by the way. Thx.

[countrygirl123]

Lol to me it's just awkward, not something I'm used to. I don't think I would say anything if he did it though. I wouldn't really know what to say lol, I'd probably giggle :P

[ladylifter]

I respect that very much and appreciate your modesty. Best regards to you and your boyfriend (:

[countrygirl123]

Thank you :)

[Anonymous]

70 kg over a shoulder for a mile, is not super impressive, but it's not exactly easy either. It would depend on your level of fitness.

If you're American, where much of the population is unfit and overweight, it might be a big thing.

In Germany, not so much.

I know from experience I can carry 50kg for a mile over my shoulder, but I'm quite tired after that. I couldn't do 1.5 miles. I doubt I could do 70kg.

[Asker]

that's the thing, I've been in Germany for the past few years :D I've got used to being average height and strength. I'm 6'3'' , 190lb and I bench around 220-225. I'm in the best possible shape, but even so I didn't think I was that special. Now I'm in the UK, and I'm taller and stronger than average apparently. It's more the "put her on my shoulders" thing that was weird

[Opinion Owner]

Well, the british gaggers may not like to admit it, but in general the germans are in better condition than the brits. It wouldn't surprise me if the average brit was more used to lifting beer cans than lifting girls over their shoulders.

[Asker]

probably true :D As much as I'm ashamed of my countrymen, German men are in better condition overall. On the other hand, it means that in germany I just use my "amazingly exotic accent" to pull, and on britain apparently I'm superman :D Maybe the current state of affairs is not so bad :D

[Moloch]

Hey I'm all for it as long as she's not overweight. In that case, not being able to life her up would be her fault, not mine.

[Anonymous]

I like it if a guy carried me but not any guy. lol

I remember the last time I have been carried by a man was when I was in the 1st grade. My dad was always carrying me back on his shoulders and takes me to the gardens. I miss those memories. Maybe I will buy this thing to solve the problem link lol

But how could you carry a 70 kg girl?!.. I think it's very hard! I don't know if other guys can do it I think you're strong. But maybe if it's on the shoulders, it won't be hard.

[Asker]

nah, I could carry her in my arms for the same distance. I'm in good shape so it's not that hard, it's just the surprise that threw me. I'd never thought of myself as unusually strong, so it was a real boost to hear that :D

[Opinion Owner]

LOL yeah yeah it seems that you're a super hero there lol! xD

[XRabbitHeartX]

I can't really answer wherther it's normal or not as I'm not fitness expert but at question to the girls. Guys can lift me up easily because I don't weigh too much. I'm about 52kg and my height is around 5'7. My BMI is 17.9 so that's why guys don't really have a problem with carrying me I think. And yeah it is kinda a turn on if they can. I mean hell, it must be terrible if a guy picked me up and had to drop me immediately. It gives girls a confidence boost if a guy can pick her up.

[FinnishBeautyGirl]

Agreed

[kizzleb]

its definitely a turn on! I'm 5'6" and 140lbs so I don't think every guy could pick me up and carry me for a mile hah but I have had a few guys be able to pick me up and carry me up a flight of stairs. one guy was 6 foot and 170 lbs and the other was 6'2" and 220 lbs.

[hsshannah96]

I'm about the same size as you and yes a couple guys are able to pick me up that I know.

[sugarDIVINE]

its SUCH A TURN ON ;) I love it I'm 5'1 and 115pounds so yeah guys can pick me up ... I work with kids and the second graders can pick me up.. you would be suprised how many of those kids are over weight..

[Mel81]

My husband when we were dating love to give me piggyback rides. (He works out a ton). He carried me over the threshold (and to the bedroom) on wedding night (up 8 steps.) In his arms. He has carried me over his shoulders a few times when I play hard to get. ( I make sure I have my legs all silky slick with lotion to make it more difficult. HAHA)

[IshaPeniel]

I can't believe you said that carrying or lifting women was normal to you. I don't know of anyone in the ME or India like you.

Yes its popular in the movies and if the girl is really light as in 45 -50 kgs.

Anyway, interesting to know & it definitely is a turn on for most women.

[Nicefuture]

LOL Yes, I am not heavy at all, my younger sister picks me up lol how about guys ? my elder brother picked me up a lot of times and made fun of me.

I find it very embarrassing, not a turn on or off.

[carinabina820]

Yes, most guys can pick me up & carry me. I am 5'2" and about 68 kg. It's pretty fun to be carried like that. :)

[ladylifter]

Do you have a carrying style preference? Personally I enjoy carrying my girl on my shoulders like in my profile pics.

[May31]

No it's awesome, and yeah I've had a lot of guys that were able to pick me up

[ladylifter]

How have guys picked you up: hanging over their shoulder, cradled in their arms, etc? Personally, I enjoy carrying my lady in the shoulder sit position. Do you have any particular carrying position preference?

[May31]

Both. I don't really have a preference.

[Anonymous]

I'm a small girl, so i always had guys throw me over their shoulders for "fun". It wasn't...
I had this one boyfriend who would always just throw me over his shoulders, run around the house and slap my ass. I guess he thought it was cute or he was strong. I would hit his back gently and yell put me down. I secretly liked it and he knew that so he would start to touch me and head to the bedroom.

So yes! 100% a turn on

[Anonymous]

hahahah..

I've only had one guy try (besides when I was a kid), he struggled and I was ~44 kg, it hurt when he picked me up.

[thealphamaleishere]

154 ain't light work... She definitely isn't skinny

[Anthony112]

If only I could find a woman who enjoys being carried over the shoulder as much as I enjoy carrying them...

[SunshinenRainbows]

I'm 40kgs but he says I'm heavy. I really like being carried, though. Definitely a turn on. :)

[skirkland1000]

any girls out there can pick me up on their shoulders

[ladylifter]

Yes I enjoy carrying my girl on my shoulders.

[ladylifter]

I'm a fairly big strong guy, so I can carry most women.

[mount4u]

I can pick up most women but prefer petite girls