Why do I have such bad luck with guys! =(

[Anonymous]

I have seriously come to the conclusion that I have HORRIBLE luck with guys. Any guy that I'm ever interested in NEVER ends up working, and it always starts as fast as its begun. I'm an attractive girl, that's actually NICE, actually I'm prob TOO nice. I'm so sick of things never working out, and now I'm starting to take it personal! I'm a senior in college getting ready to graduate, and I'm going to get my masters, right now the last thing I'm looking for is a hookup or jerks that want to play mind games! It's gotten to the point where I don't even want to meet new guys, because I'm certain nothing is even going to come out of it. Does anyone else feel the way I do? Ugh, dating sucks!

[xxxHolicxxx]

Please don't feel like this is your fault. You can't help who you are attracted to or fall in love with. If only it were that simple! And don't try to go for someone who seems 'safe', you can't force an attraction and it's not fair on both of you. I understand your fear of putting yourself out there and having hope again, only to get it crushed. Again.
But every time you meet someone you like there's a 50% chance that it will either work out or not. You can't let fear get in your way. Would you tell someone who keeps going to job interviews yet doesn't get the job to stop looking? Just because someone else has gotten the job so far, doesn't mean it will happen every time. If you really like the job, you'll apply. And you know what, that's brave. Every guy teaches you something, even if it teaches you what you DON'T want. Keep your heart and eyes open and try to enjoy the ride.

[Anonymous]

You can't be too nice when it comes to guys. I'm not saying be a bitch, but if you are too much of a sweetheart you will get walked all over. Don't settle for less than your standards. If a guy isn't giving you what you deserve let it be known that you can leave. Guys don't respect needy girls, that's something I had to learn recently. They respect you more if you have the attitude that you can take him or leave him. Not in a mean way, but basically that your happiness doesn't depend on him. Try dating more than 1 guy at once until you get into a relationship. Its kinda hard because most guys our age aren't into taking things seriously anyway

[Anonymous]

i can totally understand where you're coming from...being that I feel the exact way. I just graduated from college last May and since then NO ONE that I've talked to has worked out. yep now you've reached a place where you are ready to settle down, but where is Mr. right? Girl, when you find him see if he has a brother...for me! This reallly sucks!

[Melissa54]

In guy world the approval of our friends is very important so it makes sense that we want our friends to like you. But what we don’t want is for them to covet you. When we hook up with a very hot girl and our buddies ogle her it is a real turn off. This is why so many really pretty girls find themselves single. We just can’t handle the thought of losing you to one of our friends because if that happens we lose our girl, one of our boys and a big chunk of our egos. So if our friends like you and

[Melissa54]

Well this is what read on a website lol. Could be true because I have the same problem I am also a really nice attractive girl and have felt I have had the worst luck with guys. I have even tried going for someone I wouldn't normally go for yet that fails too.

[Nightsinger]

Ultimately your the one that picks them.

I think its very easy to blame these sorts of problems on luck and leave the most active participant blameless (i.e. you) lol.

I think you should perhaps try going for someone you wouldn't normally go for. Maybe your one of those girls that takes easily to jerks. You should do the approaching, perhaps take a bit of initiative, find a guy that doesn't fit the ordinary type that you'd go for and see what you can get from him. Or perhaps try meeting a guy in a place that you haven't tried before. try moving in different circles which have very different expectations of love?

The challenge can't hurt.

[UKnowMe]

lol...i ask them myself this same question but I have horrible luck with girls...

[Anonymous]

i feeel this way! and I feel like I'm in your position..nothin ever works out. and I am nice and attractive as well. and people keep telling me just wait you'll find the right guy but that NEVER happens.. ugh its so frustrating but I guess there's nothing to do but wait... =[

[want2helpout84]

Well considering you're 18-24, you've still got time. No rushing

[13berry]

i think i have bad luck with guys i never been married when im out guys act like im invisible never had a boyfriend i see these women that are evil and ugly and yet they have a partner i just dont get it why do i have such bad luck with guys and this have been going on since i was born i think some people were meant to be single like.