Why many married men live in delusional and act like they are single?

[Anonymous]

Some of them even claim that they are single when obviously they have a family.I mean its not even difficult to find out about it.I remember long time ago when I was working in a company where almost all of my male colleagues cheated on their wives.What happen to all these men? Are they unhappy with their marriage? Or maybe regretting the marriage?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

***DISCLAIMER**** I have never cheated on my spouse, my marital status is listed on my profile.

That being said...I have been married 15 years. Guys need and crave the ego boost that comes form having a girl be "into" them or chasing them.

The normal progression of a relationship means that these feelings subside over time. Stresses of home/family life, sex decreases, etc.

All of these factors will make men go elsewhere.

That being said, women who are married also cheat - and my experience is that the MOST sexually aggressive women are the married ones, not the single ones. I've been propositioned a few times by married women...never by single ones.

[Alwayssomethingnew]

True, I have had sex with more married women than single women. In fact I has two different husbands call me and tell me to stop f***ing their wife.lol. I even had sex with one while her husband watched and then had seconds> That was cool

[Cromartie]

They are unhappy with their lives. Marriage is seen today as a "binding" instead of a "partnership" so when a man gets married it's more for procession. In this case being so miserable with life in general that it just seems easier to escape it all by acting the fool. This and many other forms of escapism don't really work.

[Anonymous]

Men cheat because their needs are not being met. By needs I don't just mean sex...every man is different with different physical and emotional needs. But sexual needs are a huge culprit in all of this.