Dude--if you're working out with a bench press weight of 135, no one is going to give you grief. Secondly, if you're working out 6 days a week, chances are pretty good you're over-training for strength so you won't make gains. You need rest days to build muscle. And lastly, if you're regularly lifting you're NOT who most people are talking about when they refer to "skinny" guys. (See point 1 re: 135lbs for a workout weight on the bench is not a problem).
I know the guy in the first picture eating salad haha.
I'd suggest working on who you are as a person, I'm sure most women rather be with someone that has confidence and a great personality over someone who is just eye candy. In the end looks don't last forever, unless you're just looking for over night special...
In any case just work out, have a high calorie/protein diet. do less cardio, and more plyometrics. Talk to a trainer at your local gym for help.
I meant that they don’t want to sound shallow. They think they will sound shallow if they say that, but really the majority of women think the same way they do about muscular guys.
I'm not the best looking and I was once skinny, and I'm also short. I did all I could to improve my chances with women - including bulking up - and after dating quite a few now am engaged. Life is unfair, it's survival of the fittest. Losers see that it's unfair, complain that it's too hard, and give up. Winners do what it takes to win. By giving up you've taken the loser option.
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Dude--if you're working out with a bench press weight of 135, no one is going to give you grief. Secondly, if you're working out 6 days a week, chances are pretty good you're over-training for strength so you won't make gains. You need rest days to build muscle. And lastly, if you're regularly lifting you're NOT who most people are talking about when they refer to "skinny" guys. (See point 1 re: 135lbs for a workout weight on the bench is not a problem).
I know the guy in the first picture eating salad haha.
I'd suggest working on who you are as a person, I'm sure most women rather be with someone that has confidence and a great personality over someone who is just eye candy. In the end looks don't last forever, unless you're just looking for over night special...
In any case just work out, have a high calorie/protein diet. do less cardio, and more plyometrics. Talk to a trainer at your local gym for help.
If you’re not gaining fat it sounds like you just don’t eat enough.
When you gain fat but barely gain muscle THEN you can come cry with me about genetics.
Aren't you the same guy who said "Put Yourself In The Shoes Of An Ugly Guy?" You seem like a whiner.
Yeah I’m the same guy. Those who were never skinny will never understand what it’s like to be skinny, so they dismiss it as whining
I used to be a skinny guy, now I'm fat. #progress
Haha, but no, good take man. I enjoyed reading it at least.
Well honestly muscles are really unattractive to me... Im not even saying that just to "not sound shallow" either.
So there are girls out there who would honestly prefer your body type.
I pointed that out in my take. However, usually girls who say that aren't the girls I would find attractive.
Just have patience, a girl will show up, focus on your life, you, your future, your career, thats what im doing.
I actually used to be turned on by skinny guys, but now that I workout myself, I like the look of more muscle not gonna lie
How will you be able to survive this
Plenty of girls like skinny guys. Also liking muscles doesn't make you shallow.
Not as many as you think. I never said liking muscles makes you shallow I said that attractive girls like muscles
"Girls who say this tend to just say this so they don't sound shallow,"
Your exact words
I meant that they don’t want to sound shallow. They think they will sound shallow if they say that, but really the majority of women think the same way they do about muscular guys.
Hey I remember you. Bella something.
You liked that SuitandTie guy.
@Red_Dragon you're baaaaaack! I've been waiting to see you again.
I am. Lol.
There's no such thing as naturally skinny. I would know because I'm thin, it's because we don't eat enough calories.
I can't fit in your petite shoes, sorry little man.
My huge man feet are too big for you.
5'8 135 pounds is not skinny. You must be skinny fat. Someone who is 135 pounds with less than 10% body fat will be considered swole and huge.
How many kgs do you weigh?
I'm 65, on a mission to reach 80kgs
Maybe we could exchange some tips?
I like skinny guys and muscles and I am sure you aren't the only one
I don't know how it's possible to be such a pussy.
What do you mean?
I mean that you have a loser mentality.
I’m simply realizing that life is unfair and that I will never get a girlfriend because I’m ugly and skinny
I'm not the best looking and I was once skinny, and I'm also short. I did all I could to improve my chances with women - including bulking up - and after dating quite a few now am engaged. Life is unfair, it's survival of the fittest. Losers see that it's unfair, complain that it's too hard, and give up. Winners do what it takes to win. By giving up you've taken the loser option.
I know what you mean. Im shy and Im treated like I'm invisible
The story of my life lol.
Skinny guys are weak. No girls like them.
I like skinny guys