I just don't like who I have become. I moved to a place where I have few friends, but I do have family. I've hooked up w/ random guys that I've met online... just because I miss going out. I miss friends. I don't know how to make them. I sit at home alone on weekends and watch netflix and sometimes read. I don't like to do things alone, but I don't know how to meet people.. or how to really invest in them. I meet people, sure, but I feel like I can't get close to them... or I don't know how to or something. Idk, I think I just suck at the adult world. I hate going to bed early too. My job is really hard and I'm not perfect at it. I'm a perfectionist for sure... I think that's a big problem. I haven't been sleeping well either. I've been drinking a lot too b/c I just feel like it sometimes. I feel like I'm wasting my life.. but hiking alone is never fun... nor is kayaking or anything, but I have no idea how to find people to go with. I'm not good at anything besides school b/c that's all I've ever known. I know how to be nice, but that's about it. What do I do? I feel like I am completely lost. My friends from college who are in another state say I'm too hard on myself. Another friend working in a foreign country says to do stuff alone. Idk, I just feel like I am at a total loss and I'm creating regret by doing nothing.
Be friendly with people at work or anywhere. Talk more and more to the same people about anything interesting. Get numbers. Call them. Ask questions about things even if you know the answers to get conversation going. Give advice. Once you've spoken with someone a few times on the phone. Suggest going somewhere or doing something. Be friendly, talkative and nice and friends will come eventually.
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