Lost best thing that ever happened to me:(

[angel9]

went out with boyfriend for 4yrs lived together 2 we broke up a month ago and I still miss him, been going out to gym, tried for 1st time to go out I hated it we live in small town everyone was asking where he was, that just hurt so bad, we text each other stuff randomly,not about relationship, but I want him back, I think we both got too comfortable and he said he didn't fancy me anymore, he never made time to do stuff with me like before. We have had a small talk he said he was happy with his independence and just getting on with things, but he not looking for a relationship with anyone, he not interested, I asked him if he got scared of commitment and he said" yeah maybe I don't know" he can't open up to me at all about how he feels and he knows I still love him, he's filling his time with work and sport I don't even know if he misses me?, I am lost I don't want anyone else, so I said I would leave him alone etc NC but he still wants to text and meet for coffee to "catch up" I'm so confused I have lost best thing that ever happened to me, prob him too but he too stubborn to look into his heart, so what do I do? if I can't be with him I'm not interested in being with anyone else. I've gone through a break up before and that was nothing compared to this one there just something deep inside me telling me he was the one.

[summer_xox]

Nawwww that's soo sad :(

The same thing happened to me last friday. he said he needed space because that night he told me that he thinks he dosn't love me anymore :(

And he said don't come see me tomorrow and I said kk then. Next morning went to his house to sort everything out. I was talking and crying at the same time trying to tell him that he was the only one for me. and don't want anyone else. and wanted to marry him all he was really saying is ! Awwww, Poor thing stroking my hair but 3 hours after he reckons he fell back inlove with me. cause I was trying soo hard to have him back and it worked out (:

thats what you should probs do ! try talk to him bout all ur memmories or something and tell him how you really feel in person bout him etc...

I'm sure he does still love you but as a friend for now you know he might always want you back if you try talking to him bout these things

Good luck love xo

[prymtym3]

What you are currently going through sounds very devastating and I know it hurts you. When he goes out with you and texts you, it means he doesn't want you to be with anyone else. He is buying time to ask himself if he is ready for that next stage in a relationship. You need to give him time because commitment is a very hard thing to talk about. Just remind him of the good things the two of you share together, make the decision easier for him.

[fun-weird-guy]

If he was the one then it would have worked out for the the two of you. Te longer you keep thinking he is the only one you want and there is no one else you want the longer you will fill miserable. if after a good amount of time you are still not with him then you should move on or remain single and miserable or happy if that is what you want to be at that time.