What do guys think of girl with mental problems/eating disorders/self harm/suicidal issues?

[gabisimone]

if a girl was going to therapy and trying to get herself help but still struggled with this stuff, and has self harm scars on thighs and hips and wrist a little
would that be a complete turn off or would you accept her?

never talking to her again

dont care

support her even more

not turned off but set back a little

into her even more (wants to fix her)

[Xonen]

It's very circumstancial. If it's a girl I wasn't yet well aquanted with and I found out she was suffering from one of these mental conditions, I might be discouraged from wanting to be in a relationship with her, but might still want to offer her some sort of relief/support for her condition in less personal ways. On the other hand, If it was a girl I was already working on getting to know or who I was already in a relationship with I would be entirely supportive and try my best to make her life too exiting for her to have time to concern herself with those things.

[Big_man]

everyone has issues it's the human condition. and me personally I would be able to accept that and probably love that girl more for it because it means that she's human

[Anonymous]

I have minor mental health issues and I'm not gonna lie, it's can make things tough. Think of it as a filter for someone empathetic. Also, don't expect a guy to come fix you... Thst will ruin your relationships and mess you up to boot.

[kittykatg]

I suffer from depression really bad but my fiance is supper supportive of me.

[gabisimone]

i'm so glad that you found a great support system! hope i can find someone like that one day! much love xxx

[kittykatg]

It wasn't until I moved out to college that I found people who actually supported me and like me for me, not who they wanted me to be. You'll find that system and you're always welcomed to talk to me.

[Thewhitestdudeever]

I used to date a girl who had multiple personalities, she was bat shit crazy but I learned how to control her craziness and she made an awesome girlfriend. Real talk

[hunteroftheKrouse]

I am covered in self harm scars, I am still doing it and have for two years so there's a lot of them, so I would want to help her and maybe she will help me

[Jaymm]

I like to give private answers for these kinds of questions. you can feel free to message mid you want an opinion

[aussiemanga]

i would like to support her... cuz I've been there before

[HappyToBeAlive]

I am the type of person who likes fixing things and finding broken things to fix. So i guess engineering suits me. Relationship wise i like fixing things as well.

[Scorpio909]

Not for me.

[gabisimone]

care to explain why it off puts you? :)

[Scorpio909]

I just see a person with one of those a bit unstable to date, but with all four it doesn't sound good at all.