Being thin doesn't excuse 6ou from body insecurities. Often times people find it comforting to talk shit about overweight people because then they can say "At least I'm not that fat!" Which is kind of pathetic. Of you genuinely care about people's health, Youd actually do something instead of laughing about calling them a blob. Pretty shitty. Food addictions are real and sad
I'm not insecure or skinny lol so what are you talking about and I'm not mocking large folks I'm just wondering why they call themselves curvy as in don't they know what curvy means
I didn't laugh in a way to mock anyone, it was more in a way like "wtf, that's deep" thing is with text talk you can't tell tone that's why I don't jump too conclusions. That's just me I guess and if you're over weight or larger than most then sorry if I offended you but maybe some lifestyle changes are what you need and not to be sitting on gag
Having a food addiction doesn't explain why people would call themselves curvy tho does it? You're missing the point. Like I said the poll reflects people true feelings regarding this issue. People think what I'm saying and I'm saying it, it's as simple as that.
Lol well it isn't really the point I was trying to make was it, you created some issue here I retaliate and you say "who cares" don't bring it up then. Stick to what this is all about. SOME fat people claiming to be CURVY when they are just FAT!!!
More like you highly 'judge' other women. You women are incredibly judgmental and catty toward your sisters. But then you blame men for making women self conscious about their appearance. Too fucking funny!
I don't blame men for anything and never have done. I have never been out down or anything. I gained weight before, looked at myself, wasn't happy and worked it off 😊 perhaps you should say some women and not all. That way you might sound less like a dickhead
Call me what you will but that doesn't change that fact that fat people are not curvy lol they're still fat and long after this post has died they still won't be curvy
What you said is true, but it doesn't change the fact that you are a nasty, catty bitch for saying it.
If I walked up to an overweight girl on the street and said "you're fat", the words would be true, but it would make me a complete asshole for saying it.
I am not waking up to fat people on the street. I'm seeing if people agree with this or if it's just me. If someone fat is offended then perhaps it's time for change? I don't care if it makes me look like an asshole, I might be an asshole but I'm not fat. So hey who gives a shit about what you have to say lol
It's sad that you would rather be a skinny asshole than a fat human being who cares about others. No surprise though... you already demonstrated that here.
Who said I was skinny? I am a healthy weight with a small waist lol my health isn't at risk. Are you fat or something or out of shape? Lol just because I appear to be getting on to fat people why does that mean I must me skinny? Lol I'm slim lol SLIM yes slim people exist
I am "slim" as well (9% body fat). But that's beside the point. You women are always complaining about how society puts so much pressure on women to look great and have great bodies, but the fact is it is YOU who do it to YOURSELVES. You're brutal to one another, and it's crystal clear that you do it because it makes you feel better about yourselves and you get satisfaction from making other women feel bad about themselves. That's horrible.
And that's what you're doing here. You're tried to disguise it as something else, but it's obvious that's what it is.
Why not be part of the solution rather than the problem? Why not stop making other women feel bad about themselves and instead make them feel loved and valued even if they are not curvy. Many women will never be curvy despite all their efforts.
Just be nice. It's contagious and it will actually make you feel better about yourself than making other women feel small.
Well that's why I said SOME fat people. And not about anything else but deluding themselves into thinking they are curvy and not fat. Yes it's people's choice who they wish to date but again this is a whole other topic
Well you decided to comment on this question so I'm sure you read what was written above before deciding on a suitable response. If you need a director to be shown things like this then you shouldn't be on gag
Not at all, I just wonder how someone can comment on something without reading the criteria lol you can think I'm in a bad mood but that still doesn't cover the fact of your stupidity
the ones in your "curvy" photo are actually fat! this is curvy check out on YouTube a video called CURVY IS NOT FAT !!! Fat girls stop calling yourself “Curvy”
Cause fat people are using that to cover up the fact that there actually really lazy. Instead of doing something about it, they live in a fantasy world.
@promiscuous-petal and asker its really none of your business how other people deal with their own health. Worry about your own health instead of talking shit or actually do something to help people with food addictions
@promiscuous-petal @Asker so what? What makes it your responsibility to go around telling other girls what they are and what they aren't? Why does it matter to you if they're wrong when they use the word "curvy"? Why are you so emotionally invested in the proper use of this word that you're going to go around pooping on people who choose to use this word to describe themselves? Asker I fail to see how other people suffer from it. It doesn't really matter what words you describe yourself as, the reality speaks through your eyes. Fat girls calling themselves curvy isn't going to make you not-curvy. It smells like some girls here just have an agenda.
@FlyingTurtle I've met way too many overweight girls that take their insecurities out on other people and the world around them. They are rude to people that are skinnier than them. I literally went through hell on earth with a roommate who would scream at me if I didn't want to eat cookies and get fast food with her (haha, no joke). Plus she would harass me all day. I've realized that the girls who truly aren't happy about their bodies should do something about it, rather than trying to justify it and talk about it all the time. Have you noticed that overweight woman will talk about their bodies all the time? and post pictures naked explaining how much they LOVE their bodies? But when you meet those girls in real life they are just hell to be around. And I'm not saying that all overweight girls are bitter, just the ones that cover up their insecurities with an inflated-sense-of-self and rude comments to girls with slimmer bodies.
@FlyingTurtle, I'm referring to those overweight woman specifically. Curvy is not an appropriate word for rounder bodies. Women that are curvy usually work for that body, go to the gym and eat a healthy amount of food. That word is robbed now.
I agree 100, thing is some obese people make excuses for their weighg issues and petend they are happy with the way they look because they can't be bothered to make changes. Also, they will diss slimmer people and act like the don't give a damn because they're "curvy" sure a circle has curves you know but that's because it round but in reality curvy has a waist
I still fail to see how the way other people describe themselves, whether those ways are accurate or inaccurate, merits you jumping in and telling them "You're not curvy, you're just fat." And their health I between them and your doctor. You don't need to be a bitch and comment on it.
What's with the name calling? Are you unable to control yourself or express yourself in a mature way without getting silly? Emotionally unstable. Anyway.. I think that I can exercise my opinion just like you can yours and also I think that you need to chill out a little bit, don't you? Simple if your stomach is larger than your bust, hips and ass then you're just a ball.. Curvy is where your waist is somewhat smaller than your bust and hips.
Curvy doesn't belong to J lo and Kim. They are one side of curvy. You can be larger than life and still be curvy because you have wasig definition but if you're just a round ball with no waist at all, how's that curvy?
Asker , can't you just play along? do you really have to be politically correct? cut these big people some slack. If you were once fat, you would know better!
I was slim then got larger for various health reasons then now I'm sexy again because I went to the gym and stopped eating shit. Not once did I make excuses for my size or pretend to be happy. Soon as I gained the weight I hated it and was disgusted. My best friend has just be diagnosed with an illness which makes her gain weight but she's even started working out at home and changed her diet to slow the weighg gain- if not stop it altogether
So what do you want to do? maybe you don't feel the pain of others... Do you want to go around telling every girl you see and say HEY YOU@RE FAT, LOSE SOME WEIGHT NOW? cos that i know lots of people are like that these days.
Well no. It's more or less me being realistic about what the differences are between the two. Larger people cogs more money and put strain on the health system. I think people should eat healthy and get help for their food addictions.
I'm not controlling at all. I'm also not mocking fat people, they mock themselves when they call themselves curvy. Fair enough if they want to claim to be curvy then they can go for it but most people don't agree and I'd rather not lie to make someone feel better, where is the respect in that lol
I'm focused on the people who can see that sharing this delusion only makes the problem worse but clearly you would rather watch people eat themselves to an early grave then say something. What an amazing friend you would be
There is different range of fatness. If you want to lump them all together, by all means. But you will never get rid of fat people. They will still continue to exist.
I'm not their friend and i don't get in the way of telling something they don't want to hear. Everyone has the choice to help themselves. If they don't. it's their problem. If they want help, they will find a way. Period.
You should really worry about your own health issues than dictating how others should manage their health or bodies. You don't get paid for doing what you do.. Unless you enjoy being Oprahing them.
Well why does there have to be fat people and skinny? What about the ones in the middle lol and fat people are slow when it comes to boxing. So both have their disadvantages.
This is getting silly now. Perhaps a fat person wouldn't have enough dicipline to train for an actual fight lol but that's a whole other story and I'm not playing with game with you. This conversation doesn't change the reality of things and what most people think.
"I feel like you're asking this question to MOCK fat people" Amen! Its none of your business, asker, how people define themselves. Its not your business what someone's health is like. People have food addictions and you're laughing about them being a "blob". I really feel like people like you have no place in this obesity conversation because you add nothing productive to it
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It makes fat women feel better about themselves. I hate it because I am ACTUALLY CURVY.
Who cares? Let people define themselves how they want. Worry about your own body. Makes you look insecure
I'm in super good shape. My hips to waist ratio is 0.7 and I'm slim, not skinny or fat. Why? Because I eat right and go to the gym.
Being thin doesn't excuse 6ou from body insecurities. Often times people find it comforting to talk shit about overweight people because then they can say "At least I'm not that fat!" Which is kind of pathetic. Of you genuinely care about people's health, Youd actually do something instead of laughing about calling them a blob. Pretty shitty. Food addictions are real and sad
I'm not insecure or skinny lol so what are you talking about and I'm not mocking large folks I'm just wondering why they call themselves curvy as in don't they know what curvy means
You've been mocking people all over this page.. just reread your comments
Mocking people? I'm talking about fat people calling themselves curvy when they have no curves at all. Who's feeling mocked here? Are you over weight?
By laughing about people being a blob, that's called mocking. You're incredibly insensitive comments are shameful
I didn't laugh in a way to mock anyone, it was more in a way like "wtf, that's deep" thing is with text talk you can't tell tone that's why I don't jump too conclusions. That's just me I guess and if you're over weight or larger than most then sorry if I offended you but maybe some lifestyle changes are what you need and not to be sitting on gag
Im not overweight And you are One shitty person Lol. People have food addictions
Guess some people are hardwired to be terrible. No one cares that you exercise
Having a food addiction doesn't explain why people would call themselves curvy tho does it? You're missing the point. Like I said the poll reflects people true feelings regarding this issue. People think what I'm saying and I'm saying it, it's as simple as that.
Lol well it isn't really the point I was trying to make was it, you created some issue here I retaliate and you say "who cares" don't bring it up then. Stick to what this is all about. SOME fat people claiming to be CURVY when they are just FAT!!!
asker... we dont wanna hear about your god damn hips lmao. Put your body away
We do them no favors by playing along.
No we don't lol that's my point, it's worse playing along
Proooobably because everyone else already calls them that and treats them like they're the worst people on earth.
Or simply because they want to.
Yes !
What is it with you women always feeling the need to trash talk other women? I mean seriously, get over it already.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7339-women-are-more-judgmental-of-the-looks-of-other-women-here-s-why
I highly rate other women, but delusional women who are out of shape and in denial- nah!
More like you highly 'judge' other women. You women are incredibly judgmental and catty toward your sisters. But then you blame men for making women self conscious about their appearance. Too fucking funny!
I don't blame men for anything and never have done. I have never been out down or anything. I gained weight before, looked at myself, wasn't happy and worked it off 😊 perhaps you should say some women and not all. That way you might sound less like a dickhead
After your question here it's pretty fucking ironic that you would accuse anyone else of sounding like a dickhead. LMAO.
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Call me what you will but that doesn't change that fact that fat people are not curvy lol they're still fat and long after this post has died they still won't be curvy
What you said is true, but it doesn't change the fact that you are a nasty, catty bitch for saying it.
If I walked up to an overweight girl on the street and said "you're fat", the words would be true, but it would make me a complete asshole for saying it.
See what I mean? You are that complete asshole.
I am not waking up to fat people on the street. I'm seeing if people agree with this or if it's just me. If someone fat is offended then perhaps it's time for change? I don't care if it makes me look like an asshole, I might be an asshole but I'm not fat. So hey who gives a shit about what you have to say lol
It's sad that you would rather be a skinny asshole than a fat human being who cares about others. No surprise though... you already demonstrated that here.
Who said I was skinny? I am a healthy weight with a small waist lol my health isn't at risk. Are you fat or something or out of shape? Lol just because I appear to be getting on to fat people why does that mean I must me skinny? Lol I'm slim lol SLIM yes slim people exist
I am "slim" as well (9% body fat). But that's beside the point. You women are always complaining about how society puts so much pressure on women to look great and have great bodies, but the fact is it is YOU who do it to YOURSELVES. You're brutal to one another, and it's crystal clear that you do it because it makes you feel better about yourselves and you get satisfaction from making other women feel bad about themselves. That's horrible.
And that's what you're doing here. You're tried to disguise it as something else, but it's obvious that's what it is.
Why not be part of the solution rather than the problem? Why not stop making other women feel bad about themselves and instead make them feel loved and valued even if they are not curvy. Many women will never be curvy despite all their efforts.
Just be nice. It's contagious and it will actually make you feel better about yourself than making other women feel small.
Major Respect... MAJOR!!! 👏👏👏
Same way skinny girls think there fat. It goes both ways.
Yes and no
For skinny girls its a insecurity and for fat girls they just don't wanna accept the fact that their fat and wish they were smaller.
In that way yes
Who cares! Fat, curvy, whatever. Someone should like you for you! Not coz your fat or curvy.
But why should that other person have to deal with your illnesses which are related to your weight or your insecurities
I'm not saying they have to. It's that persons choice. Being fat is not everyone's illness, it's choice for some.
Well that's why I said SOME fat people. And not about anything else but deluding themselves into thinking they are curvy and not fat. Yes it's people's choice who they wish to date but again this is a whole other topic
Uhh ugh... you said that other person not some hmm
Read it again and it says SOME fat people
Well, you didn't specify where
In the question and the description where it matters
Yes I know nowww....I was just saying earlier you were not being specific and not being a very good director.
Well you decided to comment on this question so I'm sure you read what was written above before deciding on a suitable response. If you need a director to be shown things like this then you shouldn't be on gag
Well you are just in a bad mood and that's not very nice. Now leave quietly and go take your pill and relax a bit. K thanks! ☺️
Not at all, I just wonder how someone can comment on something without reading the criteria lol you can think I'm in a bad mood but that still doesn't cover the fact of your stupidity
haha you make me laugh
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"Oh, there's a fancy name for being like me" That's how that shit happens.
I love this hahah 😂😂😂
It was phrased poorly
the ones in your "curvy" photo are actually fat!
this is curvy
check out on YouTube a video called
CURVY IS NOT FAT !!! Fat girls stop calling yourself “Curvy”
Obviously because of their boobs and butt.
Haha. I'm a bit confused about all the female downvotes.
Lol over sensitive I'm guessing. Don't worry about it
I'm not really worrying, I'm just confused. I didn't expect to see so many pro-ana people around here.
Yh they definitely outweigh the rest of us. No pun intended
Somd people dont understand the definition of curvy
Some*
yeah it's kinda annoying. But what can you do
Nothing at all
They just want an excuse
Why do you care what other people call themselves if they are happy with it?
Cause fat people are using that to cover up the fact that there actually really lazy. Instead of doing something about it, they live in a fantasy world.
Preach
@promiscuous-petal and asker its really none of your business how other people deal with their own health. Worry about your own health instead of talking shit or actually do something to help people with food addictions
Well when you take the curvy word other people suffer for it
@promiscuous-petal @Asker so what? What makes it your responsibility to go around telling other girls what they are and what they aren't? Why does it matter to you if they're wrong when they use the word "curvy"? Why are you so emotionally invested in the proper use of this word that you're going to go around pooping on people who choose to use this word to describe themselves? Asker I fail to see how other people suffer from it. It doesn't really matter what words you describe yourself as, the reality speaks through your eyes. Fat girls calling themselves curvy isn't going to make you not-curvy.
It smells like some girls here just have an agenda.
Look at the poll dude
@FlyingTurtle I've met way too many overweight girls that take their insecurities out on other people and the world around them. They are rude to people that are skinnier than them. I literally went through hell on earth with a roommate who would scream at me if I didn't want to eat cookies and get fast food with her (haha, no joke). Plus she would harass me all day. I've realized that the girls who truly aren't happy about their bodies should do something about it, rather than trying to justify it and talk about it all the time. Have you noticed that overweight woman will talk about their bodies all the time? and post pictures naked explaining how much they LOVE their bodies? But when you meet those girls in real life they are just hell to be around. And I'm not saying that all overweight girls are bitter, just the ones that cover up their insecurities with an inflated-sense-of-self and rude comments to girls with slimmer bodies.
@FlyingTurtle, I'm referring to those overweight woman specifically. Curvy is not an appropriate word for rounder bodies. Women that are curvy usually work for that body, go to the gym and eat a healthy amount of food. That word is robbed now.
I agree 100, thing is some obese people make excuses for their weighg issues and petend they are happy with the way they look because they can't be bothered to make changes. Also, they will diss slimmer people and act like the don't give a damn because they're "curvy" sure a circle has curves you know but that's because it round but in reality curvy has a waist
I still fail to see how the way other people describe themselves, whether those ways are accurate or inaccurate, merits you jumping in and telling them "You're not curvy, you're just fat." And their health I between them and your doctor. You don't need to be a bitch and comment on it.
What's with the name calling? Are you unable to control yourself or express yourself in a mature way without getting silly? Emotionally unstable. Anyway.. I think that I can exercise my opinion just like you can yours and also I think that you need to chill out a little bit, don't you? Simple if your stomach is larger than your bust, hips and ass then you're just a ball.. Curvy is where your waist is somewhat smaller than your bust and hips.
Curvy implies multiple curves - not being a sphere.
That's rolls and lumps then not curvy
I absolutely agree with you. they're in denial.
It sounds nicer then fat?
Who likes to be lied to. I prefer the medical term "obses"
It's better than being called a chockerblock.
What's that? I have never heard that before.
Please don't be fatphobic... You are my friend :(
i made that up
@LauraMarx I'm not! If curvy has to be used, so be it. But people all think Curvy belongs to bodies of J. Lo and Kim K
Made it up lol
asker if i tell you what the guys talk about behind girls.. you'll be shocked at their language.
Curvy doesn't belong to J lo and Kim. They are one side of curvy. You can be larger than life and still be curvy because you have wasig definition but if you're just a round ball with no waist at all, how's that curvy?
And what would I be so shocked about?
I think Curvy is a respectable term to use in order to be 'polite' to describing themselves in public
Asker , can't you just play along? do you really have to be politically correct? cut these big people some slack. If you were once fat, you would know better!
Well it sure is polite but doesn't to them any favours.
I was slim then got larger for various health reasons then now I'm sexy again because I went to the gym and stopped eating shit. Not once did I make excuses for my size or pretend to be happy. Soon as I gained the weight I hated it and was disgusted. My best friend has just be diagnosed with an illness which makes her gain weight but she's even started working out at home and changed her diet to slow the weighg gain- if not stop it altogether
ok if you have to tell it like it is... you will also open up a can of worms... with everything and anything around you. ARE you prepared?
I will eat those worms for breakfast and then hit the gym later and work those bad boys off
So what do you want to do? maybe you don't feel the pain of others... Do you want to go around telling every girl you see and say HEY YOU@RE FAT, LOSE SOME WEIGHT NOW? cos that i know lots of people are like that these days.
Well no. It's more or less me being realistic about what the differences are between the two. Larger people cogs more money and put strain on the health system. I think people should eat healthy and get help for their food addictions.
I feel like you're asking this question to MOCK fat people.
You sound controlling lol
I'm not controlling at all. I'm also not mocking fat people, they mock themselves when they call themselves curvy. Fair enough if they want to claim to be curvy then they can go for it but most people don't agree and I'd rather not lie to make someone feel better, where is the respect in that lol
They never asked for your oopinion, why would you spend caring for others how they should conduct themselves?
Sounds like a pointless mission
I'm focused on the people who can see that sharing this delusion only makes the problem worse but clearly you would rather watch people eat themselves to an early grave then say something. What an amazing friend you would be
Why would you continue in participating in my pointless mission? Just like you participate in the delusion of obese people..
There is different range of fatness. If you want to lump them all together, by all means. But you will never get rid of fat people. They will still continue to exist.
I'm not their friend and i don't get in the way of telling something they don't want to hear. Everyone has the choice to help themselves. If they don't. it's their problem. If they want help, they will find a way. Period.
You should really worry about your own health issues than dictating how others should manage their health or bodies. You don't get paid for doing what you do.. Unless you enjoy being Oprahing them.
Who wants to get rid of fat ppl? Stop trying to turn this into something it isn't.
I wonder who's going to win the fight in the ring. The fat one or the skinny conscious one.
I workout 6 days a week and eat according to my daily Intake my hips to waist ratio is stacked so I don't know what you're talking about
Fat people are strong.
Well why does there have to be fat people and skinny? What about the ones in the middle lol and fat people are slow when it comes to boxing. So both have their disadvantages.
This is getting silly now. Perhaps a fat person wouldn't have enough dicipline to train for an actual fight lol but that's a whole other story and I'm not playing with game with you. This conversation doesn't change the reality of things and what most people think.
You're the one complaining about fat people taking up space and other health facilities.
Taking up space? Lol what are you taking about. My point was some fat people beeline they are curvy and not fat. Let's draw the line here
Let me know when you start wrestling with a fat person in the ring.
Lol why would that even happen and why would you even come up with something like this lol this is getting plain weird
"I feel like you're asking this question to MOCK fat people" Amen! Its none of your business, asker, how people define themselves. Its not your business what someone's health is like. People have food addictions and you're laughing about them being a "blob". I really feel like people like you have no place in this obesity conversation because you add nothing productive to it
I just feel like you should get off my dick. Stick to one post and we can conversate. You're just all over this shit
Because they want to feel better about theirselves