I'm having a really hard time accepting my body?

[Anonymous]

I have wide hips and a big round bum, and small (32A) boobs. I am very disproportionate and I just feel ugly, I do have a boyfriend and he doesn't mind my small boobs but I know he'd be so much happier if they were bigger (he says things like "big boobs are just a plus anyways", which sounds like he's just "putting up" with my small boobs and doesn't actually like them). I wear a pushup bra every day but when I take it off at night I just feel worse about myself.

I have really short legs and pants always look bad on me.

I just feel really ugly, and I don't know what to do, people don't say I'm ugly but I know I'm nothing special and just feel so awful about myself.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Don't feel awful about yourself! Every girl is beautiful is her own way and just the way she is. Your boyfriend says he doesn't mind and so he likes u the way u are. You're probably feeling worse about urself when in fact u look good in other people's eyes. Every person has a certain type of body with its aims and defects. Dont feel bad about yourself if u can't change ur body. Thats who u are. People like u the way u are. You are beautiful and no one should tell u that for u to believe it. So smile!

[Anonymous]

Instead of looking at what you don't have, why not try looking at what you do have? Feeling insecure is perfectly normal but it comes from comparing ourselves to others and trying to change what we look like instead of appreciating what we have. Love yourself for who you are!

[PhiOmega]

Damn, i mean, i can't see you but your body sounds vry attractive to me

And i say the same exact thing about breast, boobs are just a bonus

It's like, getting a milkshake with my cake, i want a cake the shakes just a bonus

[Asker]

I guess so... it's just when he says it like that it sounds like my small boobs are just a minus and that he's not really happy with how I look, he just puts up with it... I don't know. It's so frustrating. I'd give anything to wake up with bigger boobs.

[PhiOmega]

Fuk, 4 real, the thing is u should be happy, but the boobs just don't matter that much

Thats the truth

[LovelyPanda]

Your not ugly everyone looks in the mirror and only looks at the negative but when looming at someone else they see positive. you should love yourself for you and if its really a big deal get surgery for it

[Asker]

yeah.. i'd get a breast augmentation but it's very expensive (like 7 thousand dollars on average) and you have to get it redone every few years.

[Random_chick_2384]

Wearing a bra all the time can cause ur boobs to sag. If u want bigger boobs try eating some foods with estrogen in them.