My boyfriend never wants to have sex. But I always see porn on the scroll box after he leaves the computer and today I found his playboy magazine.
He rarely says nice things about me but he's always teasing me about the bad stuff. Lately I have been thinking he just doesn't like me but whenever I say maybe we should end the relationship, he doesn't want to. He does nice things for me but I just don't think he likes me or thinks I'm pretty. I think he may cheat on me. I have no clues but I just think it's weird how he never wants to touch me even when I put it out there.
He rarely says nice things about me but he's always teasing me about the bad stuff. Lately I have been thinking he just doesn't like me but whenever I say maybe we should end the relationship, he doesn't want to. He does nice things for me but I just don't think he likes me or thinks I'm pretty. I think he may cheat on me. I have no clues but I just think it's weird how he never wants to touch me even when I put it out there.
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Does he use drugs? If you both above 18 and and not virgins and you see porn on his computer. Hmm there is something wrong. Like have you had sex before? If you have and he doesn't want to do it again. That is simple he don't like having sex with you. Did you confront him about the porn? I would approach it like this. When he in a good mood of course. Hey I was wondering y ur desire to have sex with me isn't there even tho iv seen porn in ur presents? Well here is a [psychology. The fear of loss is greater than the hope of gain. Maby he don't want to loose you because no one likes to loose anything good. But I would communicate that with him and communicate to him as well you have sexual needs and it makes you feel un easy that he has all this porn and not doing it with you. Otherwise its not in his conscious mind when he does things. Let him know it makes you feel that he is cheating on you because he has all this porn and not having sex with you. Other wise if communication isn't open someone is gonna get hurt. Cool? Good?
He has said that this medicine he takes, this is one of the side effects. But I don't know if I believe that because he still gets off by himself. We just got back from vacation and he was fine there. But once we get home, if I even bring up sex he acts like I'm talking crazy. I wouldn't care at all about porn or playboy if him and I had a good sex life. It makes me feel bad about myself because he doesn't want me in that way but he wants these strangers. Thank you for the advice!
Sounds like depression meds.
usually that can be a sign of him being non confident in his sexuality, have you talked to him about the situation, cause he cares or he wouldn't be with you. and cheating on you? i don't know i am not going to rule that out just yet. just talk to him maybe it may embarrass him but your his girlfriend!
Thank you for your help. I have asked him about it but he just says I don't know. I try and bring it up but he just has no interest in talking about it. In high school he use to sleep with a lot of girls, I wouldn't pay any attention to him until he grew up. But now it's the complete opposite extreme.
Yeah I mean if he doesn't want to talk about him, maybe you should look deeper is this really going to effect yall's relationship..
I'm thinking that you must be overweight or something, I mean are you in good shape? What's your height and weight. I've heard of plenty of times where the girl was big and the guy didn't want to have sex with them. So if you tell me this then I'll know.