How long till I feel confident with my body?

[Anonymous]

I go to the gym regulary like 3-4 days a week/ for an hour usually but i dont seem to be getting where i want to be, as i'm already insecure about myself and talking to girls id rather look fit so my body speaks for itself if you know what i mean :) in a non perv way xD

how ling or how hard do i have to train to get where most guys are?

[dashyguydotcom]

A much more needed information would be: "when did you start?"

As to me... I guess i started to gain confidence as soon as i started to see my body grow and change. I just went hard at it and gave everything every training session (i still do), I tried to push over my maximum weights in small steps.
Together with the eating plan to just eat MORE i was able to gain weight.
Of course some fat came with it but that can be dieted of later^^

[Ulyss]

:/ Why did you not get the Charisma boost? And did you ignore your perception slot :(

[Asker]

thats a good one xD made me laugh but no, i didn't get the charsima boost :(

[serious]

If you are already working you will start seeing the rewards, but you need to be patient, you are already doing what it takes so just learn to be patient. For some it just takes longer to show the results.

[smarackto]

Its more about the techniq and how hard you do it. Muscles don't grow overnight and in the beginning the just get harder and then start to grow

[westcoastbratt92]

I suggest you start working out 6 days a week, and workout for 2 hours instead of 1, I believe the more you put in anything the more you get out!

[CityBoy773]

It takes a while to get there, dieting and exercise. Also self-confidence.

[Krissp]

Confidence wise, you don't even need to train to be confident.
You just gotta accept yourself and even though it can take some time, it's a process that can't be sped up.

[Asker]

accepting myself as who i am now i cannot do. I have never been like that, hey is was 1.50m when i was 18years old and had a high pitched voice, not the best condition to build up some fkin confidence. School is usually where you develope your character but i couldn't sigh...