Correct me if I am wrong but there is no way to get taller is there?

[Applefan1]

There is no way to get taller. This is what I believe. If I am wrong and there is a way to get taller please tell me. I want to be taller :'(

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@Paris13 I would like your opinion on this please. Thank you.

[Paris13]

I believe that you have Stopped Growing, @Applefan so with this in mind, still Flowing doesn't mean you have Stop... Going.
I would Suggest that if you want, buy a big heel on a Boot or a Shiny shoe with Not only more room, but One that will Zoom Up in height.
Sadly, there Isn't much more you can do but it isn't the end of the world. My dad is not very Tall and he married my mom, who is not at all Tall.
Good luck. xx

[Applefan1]

But if I have stopped growing I have no hope then. Girls don't like guys that are only 5 ft 7 :'(

[Paris13]

5'7 is a perfectheight, @Applefan1 and anything below this, you should maybe worry more. xx

[Applefan1]

But paris it is not a perfect height from what I see. I see girls only dating guys that are 6ft or more.

[Paris13]

Well, it just so happen these are the guys they had chemistry with, @Applefan1 and are tall... If a girl cares about you, she will not care how short or tall or at all. xx

[Applefan1]

Yeah but every girl? and no girl cares about me then because they all care about my height. :(

[Paris13]

I do n't think it is height, it is just what chemistry they look for. xx

[Applefan1]

Oh ok well I disagree. Maybe it is different where you live then but from what I see is girls only care about height. I am going to Tokyo.

[Paris13]

Oh, well, maybe in Your own country, could be true.. yes, Tokyo is good, short and sweet and neat. xxoo

[Applefan1]

Well I don't think it is in my own country but around the world pretty much.

[Applefan1]

The problem is I am not attracted to the look of most Japanese or Asian girls and you need some sort of attraction but if I don't date an Asian girl I will have no girl.

[Paris13]

Go online then and create a nice profile for a girl then who May be right for you. xx

[Applefan1]

Nah online dating does not work for me.

[Paris13]

Okay, I see then. xx

[Applefan1]

That is what I mean. With girls you have to be hot or you just give up.

[Paris13]

Every girl, guy, has a certain type.. I am sure in life and in time, someone is outthere who will find you her type, @Applefan1xx

[Applefan1]

Trust me no girl will ever think that about me. :'( I just have to wait life out to I die. I hope it comes soon.

[Paris13]

Keep trying, @Applefan1 xx

[Applefan1]

I want to die. It would be so much more easy and I would be out of pain.

[Applefan1]

I am sorry but that is how I feel.

[Paris13]

Take a break from everything, @Applefan1 and ficus on you for awhile. xx

[Applefan1]

I have given up rather than take a break and closed my heart off to girls.

[Paris13]

Thank you, @Applefan1 for the Vote of Confidence.:)) xxoo

[Applefan1]

You are welcome my friend. :)

[Paris13]

Till the end, @AppleFan1 :)) xxoo

[Applefan1]

Your welcome.

[HookingSwan]

Can I be completely honest?

Maybe you won't like hearing what I will say and maybe it isn't my place either.

I have no way of knowing what kind of experiences you have been through with girls, but should you let what some mean ignorant people might have thought or judged about you without enough time to get to know you, define what you think about yourself?

Because the way you see yourself, also influences how others perceive you. Sometimes more than the physical aspect.

I agree with Paris13 when she said that you should try to take a break for a while and focus on yourself. But this break shouldn't be a time for you to close your heart, but rather for you to focus on things that make you happy as an individual. Closing up your heart is the worse you can do and it will mean that all those people who have hurt you woud have won over you. And I think you deserve more than to let them have that kind of power.

I'm sorry if I am intruding, but I just have been thinking this for a while,

[HookingSwan]

whenever I see you discussing this topic. I just never felt it was my place to interfere.

But what you said about closing yourself up made me sad.

[Applefan1]

@HookingSwan Unfortunately for me it is also my looks which have a lot to do with it to. I am sorry it made you sad but after everything I have been through it is really hard not to feel the way I do.

[HookingSwan]

You are in your right to feel the way you do

I understand more about feeling down than what you might know

Sometimes we have to force ourselves not to feel like we do. It isn't easy, but necessary.

Hope it gets better with time, eventually.

That's all I had to say. Again, hope things will turn around for you. I'm sure they will, because the world never stands still.

[Applefan1]

@HookingSwan yeah thanks. How are you?

[HookingSwan]

I am good, thank you

Just worried about exams

It's that time of the year
maybe I already told u. I don't remember

[Applefan1]

@HookingSwan yeah you did I think but that is ok. Good luck

[Paris13]

@HookingSwan ah, yes, and you did, sweetie, and hoping you are getting through okay.. I trust you will do well. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thank you, sweetie, think it is going to be another long year. x

[HookingSwan]

Thank you both

@Applefan1

@Paris13

A happy new year to you both

[Paris13]

So very welcome and Happy New Years, @HookingSwan. xxoo

[Applefan1]

@HookingSwan Happy New year to you to.

[itsallover]

At your age, the only options you have are leg lengthening surgery, which is extremely expensive and has a very long recovery time. I can guarantee there are many men who are your height who still get interest from girls. We don't only look for height in a man, there's other factors that are SO much more important.

[Applefan1]

Yeah it is probably because I am ugly to.

[itsallover]

I don't think anyone is truly and objectively 'ugly' at all.

[Applefan1]

You would be surprised if you saw me.

[itsallover]

I've seen your face on here before I think, you're not ugly at all, honestly.

[heavensgift2girls]

There is a surgery that can make you taller, but it is really extreme. It involves cutting your leg bones in two. Then separating the bones slightly, so that when they try to heal, it has to create more bone to reach one another. You can try looking up "leg lengthening surgery" if you want to know more about it.

Other than that, all you could do is get some insoles, or shoes designed to give you a few more inches.

[Applefan1]

Maybe it is worth the surgery because most girls don't like short men.

[ReneDS]

swallow sperm, its full of testosterone. There is yes but its expensive and it means they have to break your legs, and insirt some sort of device, they screw you legs apart and let your bones grow back slowly, its painful plus your legs will always remain to be a weak spot on your body.

[Applefan1]

Yeah, I don't want the operation. Why must I be short. I hate it. Girls claim they don't mind short men but that is BS because pretty much all they do is go for men over 6ft2.

[ReneDS]

thats nonsense dude, im 5 ft 10, i have dated a lot of girls, i work in a busy street in a city, i see shorter guys then me walking around with really handsome girls. well you either accept your height, or you stay focused on that instead of focussing on finding a nice girl.

[Applefan1]

Well girls always seem to go for tall guys. I am only 5 ft 7. Maybe it is different where you live.

[ReneDS]

im from the Netherlands , averagely we have the tallest people in the world. 5 ft 10 here is just below average, sometimes i feel small but other times i feel big. I work out a lot so im gonna compensate in building muscle, because i got the right bodytype for that, and thats something most tall guys dont have. be happy with your body, and there is somewhere a girl out there who likes you for who you are. you are focussing to much on the negative, and if a girl only likes you for how you look, she is shallow and she isn't even worth it.

[Applefan1]

Yeah I knew that the Netherlands have very tall people. Yeah, thanks for that. The trouble is all girls seem to care about is looks pretty much. Well maybe not all but it seems most do.

[ReneDS]

and most do yes, they are shallow. thats just how most women are, but there are some really good girls out there. and you will struggle to find the right one, we all do, my ex girlfriend had a miscarriage of our child about a year a go. i thought we shared something special, but for her it was just a reason to leave me, blaming it all on me etc. Well she was the mother of our child and there is nothing that is going to change that and she is stunning to look at. but we aren't on speaking terms anymore and that hurts a lot. since then i have been dating 4 women, and had a married women flirting with me. and 3 times it went wrong, and it sucks , it hurts, because i liked all those girls but something was wrong. In the end i didn't know why they wanted me, they werent bad looking and had a lot of guys hanging around them, but i also dont know why they didn't want me. bro keep your head up and just hit the gym, try a new hairstyle etc.. reinvent yourself :)

[Applefan1]

I am sorry to hear what girls did to you and also don't forget most girls are bitches to.

[Applefan1]

Anyway I have given up and am going to stay single all my life to I die because I am sick of being poorly treated by women.

[ReneDS]

dude with that attitude you will always stay single, im seeing a girl now and she is really sweet and intelligent. The only reason women treat you poorly, is because you let them. I had a paranoid girlfriend this year for a few weeks, i really liked her , and she was really beautiful but she was of the hook crazy. she treated me like crap, not by insulting me but by never believing me, making me out to be a cheater while im not. i was walking on landmines daily, one wrong action, staying online to long and she would bombard me with questions and accusations of cheating which i never did. i tried really hard to make her happy, realizing she made me feel worse. i give you one tip, go work on you. hit the gym dress different a new hairstyle, maybe facial hair, get a tattoo, go out, date as many girls as u possibly can, because now, you aren't doing anything to improve on yourself. when my ex girlfriend who had a miscarriage left me, i was taking anti depressants, i shot myself of from the world

[ReneDS]

i hit rock bottom when i finally started to grieve about my child, i started talking to a psychotherapist to help me figure out my life and to give me questions about things i never got any answer to. mostly related to my ex girlfriend her behaviour. i started dating again after 3/4 months, when a married women told me, ooh this is my daughter, come meet her. it wasn't a succes but i realized i still had it in me, so i kept dating, then i met that beautifull paranoid girl, who i sometimes think about, she was really exotic but she was crazy as hell. so i kept dating and yes it sucks every single time, but its ok. dude if you have some issues, go talk to a psycho therapist and as i said before, do something about you, hit the gym etc...

[Applefan1]

What i have said is true about most women though. Even if I did not have that attitude I will stay single because I am ugly. I don't let girls treat me bad anymore. Yeah so I have to get hot.

[ReneDS]

no you have to get confident, because at this moment you are not. and when i started hitting the gym about a year ago, i felt shy about looking in the mirror, now i look in the mirror all the time, to see the results and i quit frankly dont give a shit about other people there.

[Applefan1]

What I have said is ture. Women care so much about looks. Yeah maybe ill join the gym so I can get hot.

[The_Cookie_Monster]

I don't think there is any way... when I was a little kid I wanted to be the tallst person alive or at least 7 feet tall, I'm 6 right now and I wish to be taller sometimes too. But I'm just glad the girls I have dated have been smaller than me. So maybe its all in yoir mind. By the way I'm taller than my older brother but not my oldest, so maybe in genetics also

[Applefan1]

See even if I was 6ft I would be more happy than being an awful 5 ft 7.

[The_Cookie_Monster]

Sorry dude :(

[Applefan1]

It is ok. I just gave up on women anyway. They are pretty much all bitches to go with being shallow anyway and all sexist to and all treat men like shit pretty much. Women are scum.

[Applefan1]

This is why I actually no matter what a woman says I have learnt you never trust her. Even if she looks like she can be trusted she can't be.

[Applefan1]

Sorry but that is how women have treated me so it is now how I feel about them.

[The_Cookie_Monster]

I understand, its fine.

[Applefan1]

Yeah, so I have given up on women now. I will get pets instead. I will die single but O well nothing I can do about that.

[The_Cookie_Monster]

I wouldn't give up on them though, your just probably finding the wrong ones, and there is a lot of the wrong ones out there but there are also great ones. Just gotta find a girl who worth it

[Applefan1]

Yeah but even if a girl was a good one I still don't think I would be able to trust her these days because I don't trust women.

[RedThread]

I have a friend who is 5'7" who got soooooooo many girls. Sure there are some women who have a cutoff when it comes to height but most women wouldn't even notice it as an issue if you didn't. Your own insecurity holds you back more than anything else.

[Applefan1]

Hmmmm...

[DodgersGM]

I agree. And again, I say that in a constructive way, QA. I think it's totally fixable, just like the rest of us have stuff to work on.

[DodgersGM]

There's no need for it, man. I don't know how tall you are, but I can pretty much guarantee you that height won't be the sole deciding factor with the ladies.

[Applefan1]

It is a big one for girls. Girls don't like men that are only 5ft7

[DodgersGM]

Well, 5'7" might not be most girl's *ideal* height, but they're not all gonna reject you for it. :)

For example, I'm STILL carrying around 25 extra pounds, and I KNOW it's not ideal. But it's not a deal breaker for the kinda woman I like.

[Applefan1]

Well they do pretty much all reject me because I am ugly to. Women are so shallow.

[Applefan1]

If a guy is not perfect to most women and have no flaws women won't date them but if us guys won't date a woman for that reason we are shallow pigs.

[DodgersGM]

My experiences have taught me differently, but I understand why you might feel that way if you've been treated poorly.

[Applefan1]

Hmmm.. I have personally seen lots of women do this. The problem is I am also ugly and girls say when I ask them it is not because of my looks and I know they are talking BS and telling lies to me because when it comes down to the real thing women reject me because of my looks.

[Applefan1]

And then you can't post a question about it on here because so many of the girls will get their panties in a twist.

[DodgersGM]

I think I recall seeing your picture. You're not a bad looking dude.

I'm just gonna be totally honest here. My guess is that you got mistreated at some point, it stuck with you, and you haven't been able to shake it yet.

The problem with that is this: if you even give off even the slightest whiff off resentment or anger, women can smell it on you immediately, and it'll be a turnoff.

How does that sit with you? Because you can really change the situation, if that's indeed what's happening.

Keep in mind that I'm saying these things to be constructive. We all (and I mean ALL) have things we can work on. And l I think this is a thing that you'd benefit from working on.

[Applefan1]

Sometimes maybe but not all the time because even when I am nice to girls and don't give off any anger it makes no difference. So I just can't win no matter what I do and I never will be able to. I am a good person but women love destroying good men and then when the men can't take anymore they blame the men for what they caused. Anyway, stuff western world women I am going to Japan to find a Japanese woman.

[Applefan1]

Western world women only seem to care about three things. Money, how hot a guy is and if he is a bad boy.

[Applefan1]

That is how I feel.

[Applefan1]

So Tokyo here I come.

[DodgersGM]

That might be true on some level (about western women caring more for material things). We are, after all, a very materialistic subset of cultures.

[DodgersGM]

I know my opinion isn't super relevant, but I don't think you're a bad looking dude. I really think that breaking that cycle of negative self-thought is key.

[Applefan1]

Yes, I just don't know anymore. I might just get pets.

[DodgersGM]

Just consider the possibility that it's something to work on. That's all I'm saying. :)

[jacquesvol]

I just stumbled upon this: europe.newsweek.com/peyton-manning-says-allegations-human-growth-hormone-use-complete-garbage-409182

[Beautifiedgirl123]

My brother took growth hormone injections but that was when he was young. Don't know if it would help someone older. Of course he was prescribed to them by the doctor and they were like $100 an injection so pricey

[Applefan1]

Might be worth it, if it is safe because it seems girls hate guys that are short.

[Beautifiedgirl123]

I think you can only get them if the doctor thinks you need it. My brother was 14 he started them and was using them for like 3 years everyday. I don't know if they'll allow people over like 18-20 use them but yea. Hope it helps

[Applefan1]

Yeah, because being a 5 ft 7 guy really sucks! Like really sucks so much.

[Beautifiedgirl123]

I'm 5'1 so I'm pretty short too

[Applefan1]

It is ok to be short if your a woman though but it seems not ok if your a guy.

[Beautifiedgirl123]

I don't see anything wrong with 5'7 for a guy

[Applefan1]

I wish more girls thought like you. 😢

[Applefan1]

The operations you can have done do not seem nice.

[Beautifiedgirl123]

There's operations to get taller? 😳

[Applefan1]

Yup they have to cut your legs and bones in your legs I might get it done.

[Beautifiedgirl123]

Oh god just the idea of it gives me chills

[Applefan1]

Yeah they leave a gap I think between the two parts of your bone, it grows back together again and when it does you are taller. If you understand what I mean.

[Mistnigqa808]

You could get an operation like ole boy said.. but yeah is it that important to you?

[Applefan1]

Yes, it is very important to me because girls don't date guys that are under 6 ft 2.

[Mistnigqa808]

I'm 5'8-9 amd I've never had a girl tell me "you're too short for me" even if they were 6'1 themselves.

But I see what you're getting at and it's kinda stupid how this "topic" is even a thing, right? Especially when your average girl is 5'0-5'6, right? So you'd think they'd want a guy who's in their height range, right? Not have an abominable snow yeti walking next to them in public ^_^.

I BS ya not, today I say a girl who was around 5'0 dating a guy who was at least 6'3 like bruh how can they do that? That's so CREEPY to me. And why would he even want a girl that short when compared to him?

But hey screw it... it's none of my business LOL.

[Mistnigqa808]

You got that grown ass man walking next to that little ass kid in public wtf!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Applefan1]

Yes, you would think they would want a guy in their height range. It is also more easy for the girl to kiss the guy if the guys is the same height but no girls only want tall guys. How sad is it, that I can't get a girlfriend because of something I have pretty much no control over. Hmmm... The only option is to give up on girls.

[Mistnigqa808]

I'm guessing that it's something else that deterring them from you... and not your height.

[Applefan1]

The fact I am not a bad boy.

[Applefan1]

Or not rich

[Applefan1]

Or not hot

[Applefan1]

It seems that is the only 3 things women care about. If you are none of them you are stuffed.

[Moose2coolvargas]

No probably not, don't they say guys height stops at 21 and girls 18

[Watermelonoma]

well you're taller than i am, and women still like me sooo

[Waffles731]

There is a surgey of recent devlopment,
It basically breaks your legs repeatedly as they will actually grow after regardless of age

[DrafHot]

sleep early at night (atleast 8-9 hours), drink milk, drink vitamis that helps you to get taller, then masturbate thrice a week.

[Mysterio421]

If there is a will, there is a way.

[Applefan1]

I wish I could just buy some more height. Girls hate short men.

[Mysterio421]

How tall are you? Sleeping 8-9 hours, intaking calcium, exercising, and stretching can help.

[Applefan1]

Only 5 ft 7. Ugg...

[Mysterio421]

That's not short in my opinion. I would say that height is average

[Applefan1]

It is reasonably short for where I live I think. I am just sick of girls! Fed up with girls! I think they are more shallow than us men.

[Mysterio421]

Well, dating nowadays has gotten worse. Tell you what, if you have money, power or fame you can get hot chicks whether your homely, short or overweight. If your trying to get laid then I would say be the bad boy. Put hem on ice. Treat them like crap. It works every time. Counterintuitive but it works. I personally don't have time to waste so I just focus on my business and investments.

[Applefan1]

Awesome, maybe I will start treating girls like crap and not be nice to them. Sadly there are a lot of other things I do not have in life either. I think men are less shallow than women.