I'm a very skinny and attractive chick, how do I get guys to not see me as breakable?

[Trinket_69]

As far as the skinny part goes, I’m 21, 5’4” and (to be completely honest) 92 lbs, but trust me it’s not like I look anorexic, I just have a very small frame and a fast metabolism (I mean I’m an A cup for crying out loud). As far as attractive, I’ve been told many times I look like Halle Berry from Swordfish (since I cut all my hair off) and random strange men cat-call me and tell me I’m gorgeous.

Anyways, recently I’ve been told when guys see girls like me they say things like “Yeah she’s hot but I’d probably break her”. Let me tell you that’s farthest from the truth, it’s rare that I find a guy who can give it as rough as I like it, not to mention skinny girls are quite flexible. So my question is, how do I appear more resilient, stronger or what have you without being butch or just plain scary?

(Or is this even a real concern? Do guys just say stuff like that because they’re actually too nervous or shy to come and talk to me?)

[jevaunit1]

**WARNING** I am very vulgar and very blunt , if this offends anyone ( kick rocks in advance) :)

lol

will from my experience smaller woman usually can take a lickin a keep on tickin if you know what I mean, (you petite girls are such animals, that's why I love you'll) I've also learned that smaller woman while still very tight are kinda deep that could make some guys a little intimidated, I don't think you need to do anything...there isn't really any thing you can if you think about it, not unless you have complete control over your metabolism which would be almost mutant like...that would be kinda cool thought:)

[Trinket_69]

Thanks your comment make me laugh

[BurningHammer]

First off, I would have to say that you are very attractive indeed and far from anorexic-you merely have a very svelte body-type. As for your question, guys say such things because it is a bravado/machismo behaviour which masks their intimidation/fear of very attractive girls. I believe you don't need to act in any way yo make it seem as if you're "more resilient/stronger" etc. all you have to do is call guys out on their bluff and you could even be cheeky and say you could break them/they couldn't handle you.

[BurningHammer]

Ahem, forgive the typo, it should read "to make it seem".

[Trinket_69]

Thanks, I found your answer very helpfull, next time that happens I will tell them I'm probably more than they can handle anyways

[Juliana77]

why do you care? Your profile says you're dating... I think your bf's opinion that matters, or at least that's how should be.

Besides, as you know, you're very beautiful, don't worry.

[Trinket_69]

Actually we're swingers, and he's the one who's told me that's what some guys think, now he loves me just the way I am but I still try to get some extra action when I can. plus I've been away for the summer and I'm sexually starved

[rihannarain]

If you are looking for a relationship he wouldn't care that you are skinny. If you just want one-night stands with some dudes at the bar then the best thing I could recommend is start going to the gym, start eating more, etc.

Me ? I wouldn't bother. I am skinny (about 100lbs) 5"7 and I like the way I am regardless of what anyone else says.

[Trinket_69]

Yeah I don't intend to change the way I look either, I just thought I might have more to do with attitude and body language or something