Why do I feel like a loser?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure why I feel this way. I have a great family, good health, and I'm working. However, there are a lot of days I feel like disappearing and I just want to be left alone. I also feel sad for no reason. My self esteem isn't in the best shape. I do like myself a lot better than when I was in junior high/high school. At the same time, I'm not 100% percent comfortable with my body and I think since guys don't approach me, I'm not great looking.

I used to keep in touch with my friends from high school and college through fb, but I didn't talk to them outside of that nor do we hang out. if someone did ask me to hang out with them, I would make up some excuse at the last minute. I deleted my twitter account at least 4 times, because I felt disconnected from friends I was following. I know they are getting annoyed with me constantly doing that. Anyway, I don't have much friends or should I say any friends? What should I do to stop feeling like this? Is it my fault that I feel this way?

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I guess no one cares why I feel like this.

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Thanks for your answer :o)

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Cool. Thanks :o)

[David-NewZealand]

I have no idea how long ago you posted this question but a lot of the things you mention here are exactly the way I feel about myself. I have a great family, good health and I am studying tourism at uni which is what I wanted to do. But I feel ugly to women. What I think is we have to remember just because someone might say something to you doesn't mean its true. Remember there are advantages to being single for example you can do what ever you want whenever you want. You may feel this was but its not your fault. Maybe you need find someone you can trust to open up to about your feelings. I can understand you completely because I am going through the same thing. If you feel like you want to talk feel free to talk to me, if not I respect that to.

Have a nice day :)

[Anonymous]

You gave up waiting for an answer an hour after posting this?

Hard to tell much from a short description, but here's some advice:

Just do something with someone! Go out, reconnect (as in, really reconnect) with old friends. Or, better yet, make new friends, meet new people, talk to them and learn about/from them.

[Opinion Owner]

^ I can't remember why I checked 'anonymous' when posting this.

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