How can my mate be so successful with girls and I don't seem to get a look in?

[jockeydan]

well my mate and me are both jockeys so I know its not that.

And I don't like to slander a friend but he isn't exactly a gem with no teeth and he's a lot shorter than me, hardly wears any decent cloths

I know I'm not perfect but I just can't see how the girls don't really want to know when were together

I know he dances at clubs a lot unlike me and everything but I thought I was a nice person and usually everyone at works finds me funny and all my friends that are girls with other guys say anyone would be lucky to have me and I'm a great guy I just got to hang in there

but to be honest its started to get me all self conscious asking myself what I'm doing wrong and wondering if I should even bother and rather just stay in when he goes out instead off sitting around him with all these different girls

[Luopio27]

Ask you Alfa mate to hook you up on a double date. When that guy who all girls want try to hit on him, he can say that he only goes for double dates with his best friend when the time comes. The girl that lkes the Alfa is has no choice but to give you all the intell inside information of atraction to help you get there.

I have been were you are, my best friend was wanted by every girl in all schools around but he didn't give a f*** about nobody. If that guy would have put this chalange on the table, it wold have made the world of high school dating far more interesting. If you are shallow, meaning looks is what judges, then its harder.

The faces my change but the game is still the same.