Would you reject someone who smokes or does it depend on what they smoke? (Page 2)

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Me and this guy were vibing on Christmas eve. Then he started bragging about pot brownies and how he needs them several days of the week to get by. I was extremely turned off so i rejected his offer to further get to know eachother. I told him i hold weed to the same length as smoking cigarettes, cigars, blacks, hookah, vape, etc. He was like “but i dont even smoke it, I only eat it. And we vibe so well, how can you let such a thing affect what we had going?” I told him it was quite early in the day and i hardly knew him just yet and had no problem stopping it there. I also told him, i broke up with an ex for it after he started up. Then i told him he sounded pretty dependent on what I (along with very few others) consider a drug. He agreed and said he felt addicted despite what other smokers deny. He also said he’d spare me the “bullshit benefits of weed” that many smokers discuss with those who dont support the habit. He was a very cool guy but had no intentions of ever leaving it behind. I just dont want to date someone who needs to be intoxicated to become/remain happy and hype. I want someone whos a natural. As for you, would you reject someone for smoking or does it depend on what they smoke ? #FeelFreeToList #SmokeOrChoke

whosDmann · Answer

Well, these days Damm near everyone is vaping or taking some sort of cbd product.. I myself smoke like snoop.. and everyone on my social circle also get high and have 6 figure accounts... and I think that slogan is don't drink and drive.. not to many folks kill people wen they are high!!!🤷‍♂️

Alyssa11 · Answer

Yes I can’t be with someone who smokes. Shisha is alright though cause that’s part of our culture (I do it myself occasionally). As long as he doesn’t do it ALL THE TIME

kellytheman · Answer

Depends for me if the smoke cigarettes or cigars I try not be in a relationship with that person. If they smoke weed I am okay with that even though I don't do it myself but as long they don't over do and become a zombie. If they smoke any other kind of drug like crack I immediately end that relationship.

loveslongnails · Answer

As a former smoker, I can say that the stench of cigs on a girls breath, hair, clothes, etc, are enough to turn me off. I can understand why mine turned off girls too. As for other smoking, like vapes and hookah, I wouldn't be attracted to someone who did. Weed in moderation, ok, same as alcohol in moderation. But no matter what you smoke, it leaves an odor and creates a film that covers your life.

InferiorElegy · Answer

A guy like me can't afford to turn down any female for whatever flaw they have, not like it'll ever happen. Only reason I would reject a girl is if I feel as if it's a prank again which honestly that's the only reason I can see for a female to approach me and asking me out.

Freespirit777 · Answer

I used to be a heavy weed smoker. I found it slowly building up in my system and it ruined my life. I had trouble learning new music for the keyboard, almost got into a wreck because I was too stoned and it started giving me ED. I quit it and I want to stay away from it. My life has turn around beautifully. I have an addictive personality and cannot play with drugs or alcohol. So for that reason, I cannot be around practicing addicts.

Anonymous · Answer

I’d be okay with them smoking tabaco instead of weed or vape… actually I’d prefer him not to smoke because I’d be worried about his health all of the time. If he’s a heavy smoker I’d pass but if he’s someone that grabs the cigarette every now and then , then it’s fine.

Oigit · Answer

Smoking is a no go for me. It does not matter if it's vaping or smoking weed. It's a combination of events in my family and having a really strong scene of smell. The same can be said of drinking as well.

Cherry234 · Answer

Yes, I would reject someone for smoking of any kind. It's a dangerous and addictive habit. I don't want to be a victim to second hand smoke.

the_sinner · Answer

Yeah I’d reject the person straightaway.
I take the red flags quite seriously and I can’t stand a major one even when rest of the things are fine with the person.
Also I’m kinda allergic to most tobacco smoking products. Actually I’m sensitive to any kind of smoke, My mom uses some incense sticks while she prays to God and even though it has a fruity fragrance it still makes me sneeze 🤧

AviatorTom · Answer

I dislike smoking. When I was younger and dating, I tried not to date girls who smoked. Those who did... I gave them something else to enjoy between their lips. That actually got one girl to give up smoking altogether.

KaitlynH · Answer

I don’t date guys who smoke. I want me and my partner to live till we’re 100 not him dying on me at 50 or smth

Agape93 · Answer

Nothing hard like crack or something. But I don't care what you smoke usually. Cigars, cigarettes, weed, vapes etc. Just don't smoke in my house.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I quit smoking, so I would prefer to not date a smoker for the simple reason that I don't want to start smoking again. I guess I could tolerate vaping, maybe? I don't like the smell of vape though. I vastly prefer the smell of real cigarettes.

England4eva · Answer

I only read the title but I literally cannot date a smoker. Seeing someone I like or love slowly causing themselves sickness and possibly death does not sit well for me.

melanieeeB · Answer

I would do the same, I don't want to date someone who smokes or takes drugs. I once even stopped a friendship, cause he became a dealer and I couldn't hang out with him anymore.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Cigarettes, absolutely. Weed/edibles, it depends. If it's recreational, then ok. But a mf that gotta wake and bake and all that? Nah. I don't want a mf that's always high.

bigbluey · Answer

If I really liked them then I would tell them to please smoke outside and if I didn’t like them I would reject them. It really depends on if I love them or not

MysticMC · Answer

I don't care if they smoke, Just depends really how much they do it, If they are a light smoker then sure its fine... If its the opposite and they're smoking 30 a day then yeah no I'm alright

Pink2000 · Answer

I don’t mind weed smokers as long as it’s gas and not some Reggie ….. I can’t do cigarettes and obviously I can’t be with someone who is smoking meth and crack.

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