Would you reject someone who smokes or does it depend on what they smoke? (Page 2)

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Me and this guy were vibing on Christmas eve. Then he started bragging about pot brownies and how he needs them several days of the week to get by. I was extremely turned off so i rejected his offer to further get to know eachother. I told him i hold weed to the same length as smoking cigarettes, cigars, blacks, hookah, vape, etc. He was like “but i dont even smoke it, I only eat it. And we vibe so well, how can you let such a thing affect what we had going?” I told him it was quite early in the day and i hardly knew him just yet and had no problem stopping it there. I also told him, i broke up with an ex for it after he started up. Then i told him he sounded pretty dependent on what I (along with very few others) consider a drug. He agreed and said he felt addicted despite what other smokers deny. He also said he’d spare me the “bullshit benefits of weed” that many smokers discuss with those who dont support the habit. He was a very cool guy but had no intentions of ever leaving it behind. I just dont want to date someone who needs to be intoxicated to become/remain happy and hype. I want someone whos a natural. As for you, would you reject someone for smoking or does it depend on what they smoke ? #FeelFreeToList #SmokeOrChoke

Anonymous · Answer

I'm with you. Smoking or drugs of any kind are a deal breaker for me. My boyfriend doesn't even drink. Drinking wasn't a deal breaker for me, but I actually love that he doesn't.

Moose304 · Answer

Smoking is a deal-breaker, regardless of what's smoked. There is a reason you will never find an ashtray in my apartment.

InventorofWarp · Answer

No. I still smoke on occasion. WAYY less than I used to but I do here and there.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Absolutely. And I have. (And she was REALLY hot! 😭😭)

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

I actually hate it but i would not reject a good just because of this

Hans222 · Answer

I would need to love her a lot. And it would be a big no if she smoked inside the house 🙈

SphynxUK · Answer

Smoking weed is more of an issue than cigarettes is. This is partly down to my last relationship.

AlexEfron · Answer

I feel the same 😂. I'm fine being friends with one. But I can't promise to be the nicest person to them. I do tend to get rude when people do something I dislike - get high, get drunk etc.

Luopio27 · Answer

I wouldn't but about 70-75 of all the girls I have ever liked in my life, are none smokers and have claimed that smoking is a deal breaker due to the smell factor.

naraku · Answer

I wouldn't overly be cool with any form of smoking- shit STINKS!  I Guess as long as I don't have to help 'score" or lend money, I'd probably cope OK.

Dragonpurple · Answer

I'm allergic to cigarette smoke, I'd have to say... absolutely I would reject someone who smoked.

Barry88 · Answer

It's definitely not my preference, but if a girl smokes tobacco, it's not a deal breaker for me.

InYourHead · Answer

Cigarettes have a horrible smell and make guys taste horrible. I don't date cig smokers any more

donnny2367764 · Answer

Don't ever date a druggie. Or a pot head. Or a shit head. Or a coke head. You want a lasting relationship? Take my advice

annabananna · Answer

I would reject someone that smokes weed. My experience has been that people that smoke weed do it a lot and I don’t really like being around it.

Titanic1912 · Answer

I would turn down every girl who smokes and it doesn’t matter what they smoke! Smoking girls are VERY unattractive!

ritxi · Answer

No, I wouldn't reject her, but I prefer her not to be a heavy smoker.

exitseven · Answer

It was one of the things I considered when I was dating.

Musiclover33 · Answer

If they smoke cigarettes yes because I can't stand the smell and what it does to you. I'm lenient on other things though.

Jhonrembo · Answer

The truth is I really do not like girls who smoke and it bothers me a lot. I probably will not go out with girls who smoke regularly.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I would definitely reject the smoker, no matter what she smoked; the very idea of smoking is an instant turnoff/dealbreaker for me.

MadBoy · Answer

I would very much prefer they didn't. Smoking in any form is bad for the body, especially if you become dependent on it.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

I smoke blacks and cigars most girls don’t like it except this Jamaican girl I hooked up with but in the few hours we spent together she smoked 40 cigarettes (2 packs) girls who smoke give better head

bolverk · Answer

Reject, I've lost too many members of my family from cancers associated with smoking.

Recurrence · Answer

I smoke and eat brownies, so I would hope to find someone who was chill with that

Guido · Answer

Smoking is a deal breaker for me. I'm not into kissing a dirty ashtray because that is what it's like kissing a smoker.

TallAnon · Answer

Major turn off, in all regards. I never smoked and don't plan to. It will also likely be the death of my father. (COPD/Lung Cancer)

VarddaanKaushikk · Answer

I'd reject anyone who smokes anything at all ! Doesn't matter what they smoke or how often they smoke , Smoking is Big No No for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I would, because, it's not good for their health... I mean I 100% agree with what you said...

LatinaLady9 · Answer

I wouldn’t date anyone who smokes weed or eats it. I had a similar issue a few years ago. I met a man who I liked very much until he told me that he ate edibles. I was done after that.

Wiredone · Answer

I would never date someone that depends on mind altering drugs to get through the day

Waldoe · Answer

Yes... it is a "lifestyle" choice, those are NOT for me...

Stevefiveo · Answer

Yeah, any kind of smoking is a deal breaker for me. I just find it gross.

jahaims · Answer

Idc if she smokes marijuana but even then I'd prefer for her to not smoke it.

Northernlights25 · Answer

Bleh, no. No smoking whatsoever. Though I'm sure it comes as little surprise from me.

Better_off_here · Answer

smoking is gross and no way am i gonna date someone who does that. i do not care what they may look like at all.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Smoking is gross especially cigarettes. Her smoking weed here and there I wouldn't mind.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I probably wouldn't reject them, But I probably wouldn't enjoy being with them if they did.

Twalli · Answer

Only smoking or vaping. If they are por brownies I wouldn't care

DevinAM · Answer

I don't like smokers or vapers of any substance. If they kept their addiction to edibles I could accept it, but wouldn't be a fan of it.

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

Not reject them, maybe just keep a distance hoping they get the hint

Shiningtempest · Answer

@dizzydesii I would never date a woman who takes marijuana or addictive drugs.

Hulk30 · Answer

if it's any thing other than weed maybe once a week then yea

Jouth · Answer

I have asthma. I've tried to date smokers before and it fucked me up. Never again.

ALewis30 · Answer

As long as they self control on their smoking, it could work

Anonymous · Answer

I hate smoking so I would definitely prefer a partner who doesn’t smoke, I don’t really know how can someone french kiss immediately after smoking cigarettes!!

Wymersley · Answer

I would be aroused. She would most likely be really good in bed because of it!

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, that is an automatic dealbreaker

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I have. I get headaches… dealbreaker

IAmMichael · Answer

I would reject someone for it and have before.

HighValue · Answer

I would not date anyone that uses drugs.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No smokers, No ex smokers, No exceptions.

Dargil · Answer

No smoking of any kind.

VikingWarLord · Answer

Smoking seems different than eating brownies bruh

AdithyaR · Answer

I'd reject them cause I can't stand the smell

linka_pat307 · Answer

at least drinking not smoking

Layafell · Answer

Yes it's a big no no for me

MissingSummer · Answer

I personally would reject someone who smokes.

MysticDevice · Answer

Yep. Smoking is one of my absolute "No's"

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