Therapy is only for females?

[RandomGuy1030]

Agreed

Disagree

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Maybe if you are a guy going to therapy you are really a female

[Femphile_xoxo]

There's nothing wrong with having a therapist if you're a guy. Emotions aren't a girl thing and emotional repression can be really hard on people. Having a psychological professional to talk to and get advice from is a great way to help yourself through tough times.

[Anonymous]

My therapist has been like a best friend/mentor. I met him because of my divorce, but I still arrange a phone session now and then. Talking through stuff with someone who is legally bound to secrecy is underrated, even if it does seem like you're paying to have a friend.

[RandomGuy1030]

Dude, NO stanger CARES about your problems. Might as well spend money on a stripper

[Opinion Owner]

He's gotten me through some rough shit. He's also taught me some stuff that helped improve my relationships with people, what behavioral patterns to look for to know when to keep certain people at a distance, and so forth. Whether he does or doesn't actually care doesn't matter to me. You never know if your "friends" really care, either, until it's too late.

[RandomGuy1030]

1. He is a pro
2. He might care but you had to pay him to which just sits wrong

[RandomGuy1030]

3. What kind of therapist is it

[Opinion Owner]

Man, look. I don't mind paying him. I take pro lessons 8 and 9 ball. Went to the world championship last year. I take pro lessons for playing bass, and can play some pretty difficult stuff. I look at therapy as paying for pro lessons in life, and I've gotten better at that, too. Money well spent in all regards.

The guy I see is a Cognitive Therapist.

[Opinion Owner]

He actually gets a kick out of the arrangement. Calls me his favorite client because instead of constantly trying to take someone from negative to less negative mentally and emotionally, he gets to help someone go from good to better. I think it's kinda therapeutic for him, too.

[Femphile_xoxo]

Glad to hear that you found a great therapist! :)

[Opinion Owner]

Re your update:
I thought I had it all figured out at 17, too. Don't sweat it. You don't have any weight on your shoulders yet, and I'm glad for that. Stay happy and confident while you can.

[Anonymous]

Lots of so-called dudes these days are chicks

[RandomGuy1030]

1000p0%

[Remnaourei2]

Agreed

[Opinion Owner]

@Remnaourei2 How bad is it where you are? How completely unattractive do you find all these feminized men? It's ironic because I think in a lot of cases these dudes are acting that way because they think it's a good strategy to get chicks.

[RandomGuy1030]

preach

[Remnaourei2]

Yeah some seem to be forcing themselves to act like vaginas but a lot at this point i just assume theyre homosexual whether they know/admit it or not. A lot of them hate women so with those effeminate woman haters i just auto assume they're secret homos. I mean they MIGHT AS WELL be because they are completely and utterly useless to any woman or girl.
I know of some men who i think are actually straight and have good masculine qualities but I many of them also seem to lack the masculine strength like physical strength, vigor, or somesuch... So its hard to find a man whos also good and masculine in character which includes protective and nurturing of women and children yet also has that fighter strength physically and is ready to stand up to the b. s. the world preaches about pushing feminaziism and effeminacy and homosexuality and crossdressing.

There's just so mant factors at play that I personally am waiting to see in me or at least one man. I know people aren't perfect and I realize I can't expect any man to have every single quality I think men should have but at the same time there are just some basics that are severely lacking in today's male world/populaton that I personally am not willing to overlook. They are qualities necessary to be a man. I dont want to be with a woman, a little boy, a lazy man, an effeminate man, a secret homosexual man, a crossdresser man, a limp wristed man, a physically weak man... SORRY.

[Opinion Owner]

@Remnaourei2 Hahaha! Love it! While I don't doubt that some are homos (not that there's anything wrong with that--but let's face it--what use are women to them or are they to women?) there's a disturbing number of hetero manginas. These are the dudes donning the pussy-hats and joining the girls at the women's march in hopes that afterwards they can offer to give a back rub and hope that turns into "something more." Nevermind the fact that I can't imagine anything makes a girl's legs snap shut faster than seeing a dude wearing a "The Future is Female" t-shirt and a pussy hat!

[Remnaourei2]

Hahaa wow... Wouldn't want to see such a hat. Women that are into those attires and feminazism are bitchy and bossy. Even I can't stand to be around such girls. And women shouldn't have power over men ! Men who sold out for some easy cheap free fornication dont deserve respect.

[Remnaourei2]

I didn't like the rapists and don't trust them. If doctor Ramani was my therapist I might like it though.

[clampfan101]

Highly disagree. We’re both humans.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope it’s for both.

[ChrisMaster69]

Ref update, people like you are why so many guys commit suicide.

[JoyGirl]

Nope.

[sirderpsalot123]

Disagree.