How would you feel about a partner who has physical injury and sexual trauma from childhood abuse?

[Anonymous]

[exitseven]

I dated somebody who was abused by her parents and her brother did some weird stuff to her as well. Sometimes she would be abusive to me and I think she was bipolar or something. I would never hit her back because I knew that she had something else going on with her. i wanted her to see a shrink and she got really angry with me. I called her a few times but she would not talk to me. After a few days I drove over to where she was living. She was staying wit ha friend and her boufriend and they told me that she moved out. They said she was going to live with friends. I never saw her agiabn.

[Shy-boy53]

I would feel so gutted for them , that they have had to put up with such things in their life. No one deserves that. Equally a lot of admiration if they are brave enough to try a relationship after it. It must take a lot of courage with all that racing round your mind , trying to trust someone again

[VioletHaze]

I would do my best to make him feel safe. I would be patient and feel grateful that he was comfortable sharing. All in all, I'd feel a desire to comfort and make sure he knows I love him all the same and that nothing has changed.

[jennifer_bloom]

I am taken but I would try to protect them if I knew a partner like that.

[live2dance25]

I would love them unconditionally. They’ve been through a lot and deserve nothing but a caring, supportive partner.

[Berethor]

I don't want a non-virgin if that what you asking, I don't a woman who been defiled.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Defiled_Forever

[Nikki1989]

Most emotionally mature partners don’t see trauma as a reason to pull away.

[AngryCarl3]

The physical scars are usually nothing compared to the psychological damage.

[Anonymous]

My wife was abused by 2 Pakistani men who cut her ear lobe off

[Agape93]

Same as i do already. Just love em and be patient.