Dating ex overweight people?

[ayzerli]

Girls, lets say that you meet this guy and you really like him and he seems to like you but doesn't want to date you because you are overwieght. So a few months later you have lost a lot of weight and see him and he decides he wants to date you. Would you give him another chance?

Guys, same scenario, would you give her a second chance?

For both, would you date someone who was overwieght?

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+1 y

Hmm. I have no idea how that ex got into the question title...whatever!

[BlackBear18]

I would date someone that was overweight seeing how I am a big guy. I was 282 lbs about a month and half ago and right now I weigh exactly 248 lbs (a lot lighter and a lot more loose). I don't really discriminate on size especially if that girl I like a lot has a good personality, is attractive to me, and treats me well. Now if a girl didn't want to date me because I was overweight and then I lost some of that weight, then I would not give that girl another chance. It kind of makes me wonder a little bit. If I had lost all my money or was greatly disabled or deformed, would that girl still love me with the same love she had before or greater? A person that truly likes you or loves you will love you in your worst days better than they would in your best days. I hope my answer can help you and best of luck in all of your romantic endeavors! :)

[ayzerli]

Wow, congrats on the weight loss! That is no easy task! =]

[ragshow]

If he's that type of shallow person, then chances are, when he sees another girl with a better body, he'll leave you as soon as possible. Don't trust someone like that...

[slipslender]

WHAT!?!?!?!

hell to the F*** no. wow...that's really messed up imo.

would I date an overweight person? sure. not a big deal to me.

[ayzerli]

Haha, like the curves do ya? ;)

[slipslender]

i certainly do :D

[Rumee]

I would give him a second chance ONLY if I really really like him. If you can get (already know, have a crush) someone new/better than no!

[ImALuvrNotAFighter]

Sure, I would give her a second chance. Whether I would reject her in the first place would depend on how overweight she was. A little overweight is fine; extreme obesity is not. I wouldn't want to date someone who is practically guaranteed to have major health problems down the road; I want to date someone who takes good care of herself.

[ayzerli]

hmmm, say she is 5'11" and 240 lbs...

[ImALuvrNotAFighter]

That's a BMI (body mass index) of 33, which is in the "obese" range. I personally would not want to date someone that heavy, mainly because both genders tend to gain weight as they get older, and there are many health problems awaiting them if they're too heavy.

[ayzerli]

BMI isn't always accurate per say. I used to be 190 and I am 5'11" (and a half lol) and I wore a 12. I was curvy but not chunky if that makes sense. I also had DDD boobs so figure that one out =]

[noobseaplenty]

Naturally I would date them if the only reason was that I had too much weight. Obviously If I was able to loose the weight then I only got fat because I ate crap food and got lazy (which are genuine reasons not to want to date someone either), basically it was my choice to be fat, and hence my choice to have women ignore me.

Would I DATE someone who is over weight? no! would I have sex with them? why not, maybe they will loose some weight from the exercise

[antiknowhere]

Id tell that F'ckr to kick rocks. Don't give him anything other than a "dont be such a stuck up high roller next ya s**t head".

[BlackBear18]

Thanks for the compliment. Still have a long way to go. Good luck with your future endeavors also! :)

[Ezmotts]

No, I wouldn't get her another chance. As long as she's not obese, I'll date her.

[Anonymous]

no I wouldn't give hime a secound chance