How do I tell my boyfriend he needs to lose weight?

[Anonymous]

Within the last few months my boyfriend has been gradually putting on weight...I really don't mind him being a little chubby but he was really thin when we met and he's starting to get boobs now haha. I love him but I don't find him attractive anymore.

He's said he is concerned about his weight but I keep saying it's not a problem and if he's happy so am I. How can I be honest without upsetting him?

[queenofpeen]

Him saying he was concerned about his weight would have been the perfect opportunity to encourage him to eat healthy and exercise!

The opportunity isn't lost though, you can still say, "Hey, remember when you said you wanted to stop gaining weight? Do you want to be work-out buddies?" If you're not already pretty active, you can also say that you've been meaning to and you'd like to do it with him, you can encourage each other.

[helpha]

Say 'Maybe we should go to the health club together, I think it'd be fun to work on fitness together'

[dudeman]

dont worry about upsetting him the dude is getting fat be straight up its not OK this isn't what I got myself into

[Anonymous]

Do you live together?

If Not

Do either of you love on your own?

[Asker]

possibly moving in together soon

[Opinion Owner]

even better

I went through this same thing

[Ezmotts]

Just tell him, he'll understand.

[JayCutler]

just tell him straight up