How can you tell if your boyfriend wants you to lose weight?

[Anonymous]

I'm trying to lose weight for myself (started before I started dating him) but what sort of things would he say to hint at it?

[VanillaSalt]

if he's any sort of man u can tell when he wants u to lose weight when he says... babe i think u should lose some weight... in a relationship dont beat around the bush be open and honest

[VanillaSalt]

the 4 MHO

[ThalsTals]

Eat less, cool it chubby (only joking!) are you sure... i'll have it... you eat more than me! idk? What does he say to you?

[Asker]

He doesn't. If anything he comments on how little I eat. He just makes comments on how much I like milk (he doesn't) and if I stopped drinking it I'd probably lose 2kgs quick. Or he says I should start walking more.

[Asker]

I'm not fat. I'm within a healthy bmi.

[ThalsTals]

Ah. It sounds like he wants to to become fit and eat the same way as him, which is what I assume he thinks is the 'healthy choice'.

[Asker]

I eat healthy.

[ThalsTals]

Just ask him then