My relatives think I should lose weight..

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'4", a size 3/4, and 125 pounds.

should I really lose weight?

I've always thought I looked okay for the most part.

I mean, I'm no super model and I'm a little insecure in a bikini but I didn't think I really needed to lose weight so much that my relatives needed to comment.

anyway, what is your opinion? should I lose weight? and if so, how much do you think I should lose?

Updates

+1 y

thanks for your answers!

most people said just to tone up, does anybody have advice how?

i mean I work out, and I do pilates like twice or three times a week but I never get that toned look. any advice to that?

[ErikaSmith]

No. That is a perfectly healthy weight. I know the BMI is not a very good indicator, but you only have a BMI of 21.1 which is on the bottom half of normal/healthy BMI range. I am sure you are very cute at that weight, and plus, we all wish we could tone up, or improve something about our bodies, but I would be very happy at that weight.

[ErikaSmith]

Re your update: I am sure you are just fine. You exercise. Your family is probably a little hypercritical. Normal women have some curves. We are not all fitness models.

[ErikaSmith]

One thing that might increase your tone though is to add in a little weight training.

[cinderella]

Maybe they just mean tone, don't focus on losing weight because your at the perfect weight for your height, just focus on gaining muscle.

[ivarei]

tell your relatives to kiss your ass. you don't need to at all

[Anonymous]

10lbs