How long did it take you to recover from childbirth?

[DreamsInDigital]

I went to my cousins today and we went to see the moa?a. The moa?a told me she can give me something to ingest that will most likely cause me to enter my birthing time. The moa?a said she can keep me safe, but without a hospital the baby is too young to survive and would be stillborn.

How long after this would it be until I felt normal. I mean am healed and fine?

[sarcasticbella]

she can't keep you safe outside of a hospital. If you take some kind of poison there is a good chance that you will die along with the baby. So many things could go wrong if you try to deliver at home without a doctor, you could loose too much blood, the baby could get stuck in the birth canal...I'm not judging you, but why do you want the baby to be stillborn?

[DreamsInDigital]

People give birth all the time without hospitals all over the world. That is why there are moasa's

[sarcasticbella]

yes people have home births but only with a trained midwife and not if you need to induce labor. If your inducing labor it should only be because the baby is in distress or your health is at risk. And if that's the case your not qualified to have a home birth if you have a high risk pregnancy

[DreamsInDigital]

midwife, that was the word I was look for. Moasa is midwife.

[sarcasticbella]

its still not safe for you to have a home birth if your inducing labor

[DreamsInDigital]

She said it is fine, she has done it many times.

[sarcasticbella]

make sure she's licensed. Why would she say the baby is too young to survive outside of a hospital, that's not true.

[DreamsInDigital]

I'm not close to done.

[sarcasticbella]

I wouldn't trust it, you could do permanent damage to your body.

by the way, you can inbox me if you ever want to talk.

[DreamsInDigital]

Thank you

[lace1228]

I don't understand what your asking or what moa is? What are you trying to do to the baby?

[DreamsInDigital]

moasa, it had an accent in it that was not liked. moasa is a, midwife.

[lace1228]

I'm still confused, what is with your talk about too young to survive and be a still birth? I am a mother and I had a family Dr take care of me and then a baby Dr I gave birth vaginally at the hospital. It takes your body an average of 6 weeks to heal.

[Anonymous]

It all depends on the type of birth..c-section it takes awhile..like a few mos. yeah,a few mos. vaginal--it takes less time. More like a month. Sometimes less,depending on the person.

[Anonymous]

If you induce birth with poisons and by this kill your baby you will never feel OK. You are a murderer.

[DreamsInDigital]

It's not poison, its herbs. It's not killing a baby. Killing it would be birthing it, then smothering it.

And are you saying that every person that has ever killed is not physically healthy?

[Opinion Owner]

Herbs, poison - same thing.

[Anonymous]

Never.

[DreamsInDigital]

Why never?