Is he ever gonna call again?

[blur2]

I've met this guy less than a month ago, we went on a first date had sex, and met the next day too, then I was out of town for like 8 days but we would text everyday and keep in touch, I came back we still talked then he was out of town for four days, and we still talked when he came back and actually he was better than ever, telling me he wants to see me, asking me if I found anyone else etc. Then one day we had said we would meet because we would hung out at the same place with friends, and then meet, on that same day we talked and he said he would call me later (like one or 2 hours later)

well he never ever called that night, and he still hasn't contacted me since then, and its about a week, I Haven't contacted him either, but I don't get why he disappeared like that?

[minas]

my point of you ... you should have called... the guy could be dead or sth, call him and say that you were worried something happened to him, I mean look you were intimate with him? a phone call! compared to that is a sip of water !

CALL HIM!

[blur2]

he's alright because he was all weekend out, having fun with his friends and posting photos on Facebook, so I don't know I'm thinking that maybe ignoring him will work better?

[minas]

ignoring him will not sweep the hurting doubt from your heart, call him and say Hi, don't blame him, for not calling or contacting you, then let's hope that things will work out from here, if not then definitely he is cutting you short, and you got to do the same thing !

[shenaka]

call him! you never know his reason if you just sit and do nothing! when you call him you'll know what to do from there on!

[Moloch]

Could be a number of reasons really. You never know if he'll call back because you don't know what's going through his mind. He might be playing games, might be busy, might want to end things with you.

[blur2]

truth is he is sort of busy with his job these days,as fas as ending things with me, I can't really figure out why he would, especially now?i mean its just so weird acting like you care and then the next day disappear, should I ignore him? I think its better than texting him first

[Moloch]

Call him twice, one today and the other maybe a day or two from now. After that, it's up to him. I'm pretty sure you haven't even attempted to call him or anything since that day (which is dumb). Women expect the guy to be the one calling all the time, but it really should be 50/50 to avoid all the confusion. Girls waiting like a month for a phone call, lol.

[blur2]

Well thing is I know he is a player, and that's why I think ignoring him may do the trick, as he would always text me frequently leaving no more than one day of no contact. Am I wrong?after all he was supposed to call me that night..

[Moloch]

Oh. Sound like he got what he wanted and bounced then, it's up to him.

[papercut2]

Maybe he's feeling like he's doing all the work, and is waiting for you to reach out

So do it:D

[blur2]

he was supposed to call that night, so I dunno, plus it was me who had texted him first the last two times so?

[Anonymous]

You made no mention of making him a post-sex sandwich EITHER time. This definitely impacts if I call a woman back or not. After my 45 second synchronized sex seizure, I am usually hungry.

[Anonymous]

Maybe something came up and he could not get in touch, but figured you would contact him. You never did so maybe he is thinking the same thing you are? is your profile pic of you?